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My debt horror

Right firstly this is my SoA then i will explain my current position

Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

Household Information

Number of adults in household........... 1
Number of children in household......... 0
Number of cars owned.................... 0

Monthly Income Details

Monthly income after tax................ 670
Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
Benefits................................ 440
Other income............................ 0
Total monthly income.................... 1110


Monthly Expense Details

Mortgage................................ 0
Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
Rent.................................... 110
Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
Council tax............................. 0
Electricity............................. 0
Gas..................................... 0
Oil..................................... 0
Water rates............................. 0
Telephone (land line)................... 0
Mobile phone............................ 80
TV Licence.............................. 0
Satellite/Cable TV...................... 10
Internet Services....................... 15
Groceries etc. ......................... 30
Clothing................................ 0
Petrol/diesel........................... 0
Road tax................................ 0
Car Insurance........................... 0
Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
Car parking............................. 0
Other travel............................ 0
Childcare/nursery....................... 0
Other child related expenses............ 0
Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
Buildings insurance..................... 0
Contents insurance...................... 0
Life assurance ......................... 0
Other insurance......................... 0
Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 12
Haircuts................................ 0
Entertainment........................... 200
Holiday................................. 0
Emergency fund.......................... 0
Total monthly expenses.................. 457



Assets

Cash.................................... 333
House value (Gross)..................... 0
Shares and bonds........................ 0
Car(s).................................. 0
Other assets............................ 0
Total Assets............................ 333


No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts


Unsecured Debts
Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
Capital One....................515.......25........30
Alliance & leicester...........715.......25........19
Citi...........................2100......50........27
Barclays.......................162.......0.........0
Poundstillpayday...............537.......0.........3100
Payday express.................435.......0.........9790
Wonga..........................767.......0.........2500
HSBC managed loan..............9209......220.......7.5
Argos..........................52........2.........32
Total unsecured debts..........14492.....322.......-



Monthly Budget Summary

Total monthly income.................... 1,110
Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 457
Available for debt repayments........... 653
Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 322
Amount left after debt repayments....... 331


Personal Balance Sheet Summary
Total assets (things you own)........... 333
Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
Total Unsecured debt.................... -14,492
Net Assets.............................. -14,159


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Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.
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  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Right firstly this is my SoA then i will explain my current position

    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Household Information
    Number of adults in household........... 1
    Number of children in household......... 0
    Number of cars owned.................... 0

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 670
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 440 have you checked that you're getting all that you're entitled to?
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 1110

    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 110
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 0 is this included in rent?
    Electricity............................. 0
    Gas..................................... 0
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 0
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 80 :eek: whoa, where are you calling, China? can this re negotiated/change network?
    TV Licence.............................. 0
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 10
    Internet Services....................... 15
    Groceries etc. ......................... 30 per month?
    Clothing................................ 0
    Petrol/diesel........................... 0
    Road tax................................ 0
    Car Insurance........................... 0
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 0
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0 no travel at all?
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 0
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 0
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 12
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 200 Err, I think this is your problem, what exactly is this being spent on?
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 457


    Assets
    Cash.................................... 333
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 0
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 333

    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Capital One....................515.......25........30 :eek:
    Alliance & leicester...........715.......25........19
    Citi...........................2100......50........27
    Barclays.......................162.......0.........0
    Poundstillpayday...............537.......0.........3100 :eek:
    Payday express.................435.......0.........9790 :eek:
    Wonga..........................767.......0.........2500 :eek:
    HSBC managed loan..............9209......220.......7.5
    Argos..........................52........2.........32 :eek:
    Total unsecured debts..........14492.....322.......-


    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 1,110
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 457
    Available for debt repayments........... 653
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 322
    Amount left after debt repayments....... 331

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 333
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -14,492
    Net Assets.............................. -14,159

    Created using the SOA calculator at www.makesenseofcards.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using other browser.

    You are living and spending way beyond your means, is a lot of the money spent on going out with friends?

    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • It all started when I had trouble with gambling and a few debts on credit cards then I got a 5 grand loan.

    after this I got more debt on a credit card and had to get a larger loan. Few months down the road I got more debts on credit cards plus overdrafts.

    I was getting charged alot of bank charges which led me to get a payday loan then it went to 2 and so on Hsbc has combined my loan and overdraft to a managed loan and that's it

    Now I'm going on a debt management plan with Payplan at £444 a month for 2 1/2 years, but only if my creditors accepts payments and freeze interest and charges!

    What are the chances of each creditor doing this
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Thanks for your honesty.

    Fairly good chance they will accept with Payplan.

    There are a few companies who might be @rsey for a while and keep phoning you, trying to pressure you into paying up but don't enter into discussions with them on the phone. Tell them that your with Payplan who will contact them and hang up.
    If they are calling a lot this can count as harassment, log how often they call and contact Payplan to let them know.

    Let Payplan deal with them.

    Some people find the phonecalls increase in the first few weeks but it should settle down once the DMP is in place and working.
    ... Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    How is the gambling now? Have you received help and got it under control now?
    ... Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • I still gamble but I only do it in one place but I only do a few pounds a day (whic is well better). Just go in to socialize as I know the people there. And if I do more they won't let me go over £40 a day
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Can you stop going there?
    £40 is still a substantial spend, you're just going to round in circles and never get out of this mess, isn't it better to avoid the temptation alltogether?
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • I use to go every day and am pulling it back all the time. I'm now only going twice a week max sometimes once so am learning. I still wanna go to keep in touch but I am not really gambling
  • WASHER
    WASHER Posts: 1,347 Forumite
    Welcome to the Debt free board, you have been very honest regarding yur gambling debts, there is a thread somewhere on this board where gamblers have posted their stories, I'll try and find it for you.

    Remember though, there is only one winner at the end of the day, its the bookies, try to get some help for your gambling habit, are you gambling online as well? We are not here to judge you but to help.

    WASHER
  • WASHER
    WASHER Posts: 1,347 Forumite
    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=1090463&highlight=gambling

    Have a read of this, its a diary of sorts from fellow DFW who have gambled in the past and are facing up to their debts, it may offer you some support.
  • Hi, just wanted to say gambling is a mug's game! How do i know i hear you ask? I've lost....well lets just say a lot ££££s and in terms of wins and losses i've lost way more than i have ever gained.

    I know you get a little buzz when you're up and winning, but think of the time you lose (which i'm guessing is more often than the times u win!) ....

    If you really want to get your finances in order you need to quit...period! No going to socialise or just spend a few quid....it will all add up!

    I've learnt the hard way to stop gambling, find help if you think you've got an addiction, from website such as gamblers anonymous or gamcare.

    One of the best things i've ever done was quitting gambling! (Second to Smoking! Yes i've done them all! )

    Hope you get it sorted! Good luck! :rolleyes:
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