Fashion chat- Dressed up or down??? All welcome!!

lostinrates

piratefairy wrote: »

hahaha, i'm not sure he'd care..but i like the idea!

Hmm. The idea might be not to make him care but to let YOU feel better about the situation. Who cares if he's really ''jealous'' or not...I care that the perhaps would put a spring in your step: frankly, he can go and blow bubbles: you need to feel like skipping sometime soon, feeling good about how you feel ...and that alone....just for a little while;)

giddynici

Sorry you're having a bad day PF. Hugs.

piratefairy

Thanks lovelies..
I think I'm fine about it most of the time, and then every now and then it makes me sad Partly that I'm so weak when it comes to him..I'm still happy to help him if / when he needs it, and then he doesn't even care enough about me to ask how the docs went last week etc etc..
I know I need to move on, but stupidly seem to be stuck in the past with the faint hope that things could go back to how they used to be..I guess that being why I help him where I can..

I'm well aware I need to be stronger, don't worry..You can be as harsh as needs be.. :P

I guess its just that I feel like it's unfair (childish I know) that I care so much about him, and he doesn't care about me..Feel as though if he wants me to be there for him, the care ought to be mutual..Not use me to help him, and then ignore my existence till the next time he needs something :S

daydreambeliever_3

I actually bought some clothes yesterday :T.
Usually I can never find anything I like, but I had an appointment with a personal shopper at Debenhams (was there for 3 hours!) so she gave me ideas. I got a skirt and some jeggings from Primark, although I may take the jeggings back. They're a bit slack round the waist and I wonder if they may work down when I wear them.

piratefairy

Well done, daydream..I've always fancied a personal shopper, just so that I can get an "expert's" opinion on what works for me on my shape etc..
I hope it gave you some great ideas..
The main problem I find with leggings is that they can go baggy after a few wears, so perhaps you would be best to go for the size smaller, in the knowledge that they will probably work themselves a little more loose after a couple of wears..

retro_bluebell

Hi ladies phew first chance Ive got on the net all day! Been out of the house since 10 this morning Im knackered now we had a good day though went to the Cookson museum then to the beach and park then the skies went black so decided to come home all quiet now Monsters V Aliens is on....sound like we watch a lot of telly we dont honestly!

PF hope your days is going better now?

Vicki want my boobs for the calender? I have professional pics of me Bfing not nudie ones like, that probably brought up all connotations lol My photographer friend did them when she took some pics of the family last time we got them done nice memory to have.

Ayway Im just about to update the blog f I get a minutes peace.....

Wearing dark blue ditsy floral dress
long sleeve black tshirt under
black leggings
knee high pirate boots from yesterday
long silver heart necklace
double layer heart earrings

piratefairy

It's getting a little better..Am looking forward to the gym this evening, then pancakes, and then bingo tomorrow eve!!

daisybella

hurrah for feeling better!


my turn to be feeling miserable now
I hate having a cold, especially when it involves headaches and nausea

piratefairy

yeah, that does majorly suck, daisy

um, not sure what to suggest really, keeping warm and lots of warm drinks?? maybe some trashy chicklit books or a dvd?? (maybe thts just me when i'm feeling ill)..

Caroline73_2

piratefairy wrote: »

It's getting a little better..Am looking forward to the gym this evening, then pancakes, and then bingo tomorrow eve!!

I love bingo! I go with friends and if we win enough for a chinese after we have one, if not we go home hungry. Must arrange it actually not been for a while.

Finally got dressed - I'm wearing my new yellow tunic from tx maxx with leggings, vest and a cardigan all in black, a variety of stretchy beaded bracelets from years back and a butterfly necklace that I had for my (second and last) wedding.