what would you do?????????

whitelillies

ive deleted the thread but thanks for the advise

myothercarisaferrari

tell him to !!!!!! off. I'd never let a bloke tell me who I can and cannot see. Men come and go, friends are always there x

jack*tigger

Well that would depend on how you want to live. If you want someone else telling you who you can and cannot be friends with and where you can and cannot go - then stay with him !
But if you want to be able to go where you like and with friends of your own choice then either he has to accept that or you leave.

As the question is "What would you do?" - *I* would call it a day with this guy. He is too controlling and things have gone wrong before. He's had a second chance and he hasn't changed and it doesn't sound like he will. There are plenty more fish in the sea and good friends are worth their weight in gold.

Archway

I have to agree with Ferrari, had similar problems with an ex, she didn't like my friends at all, even though I'd known them longer than I'd known her.

I still have the same friends, I no longer have contact with the ex

January20

Don't let him control you. You are an adult and you are entitled to see who you want and when you want. If he hasn't got the maturity to see that, then he is the one with a problem.

Turn your mobile phone off and he won't be able to bother you. Or if you don't want to turn it off, just ignore him. He is just trying to control you and keep tabs on you.

DCFC79

Depends if you want to do what you want or be told what to do/made to feel like your 12 years old,

zara*elise

January20 wrote: »

Don't let him control you. You are an adult and you are entitled to see who you want and when you want. If he hasn't got the maturity to see that, then he is the one with a problem.

Turn your mobile phone off and he won't be able to bother you. Or if you don't want to turn it off, just ignore him. He is just trying to control you and keep tabs on you.

I completely agree. The control will only get worse btw. Once he has you not seeing your friends then it'll be something else.

Get rid.

xx

DeeDee74

i don't think u should let him tell u who u can be friends with and where u can go. he's just trying to control u once u give in once thay often come up with other things u shouldn't be doing, most are very cleaver am making it sound like thay are looking out for u.
good luck hun x

Chinkle

Sounds like he hasn't changed and things would probably just get worse if you continue the relationship.

splicecom

I think you have made the right choice hun

rebeccamclellan

Had a similar problem wid my ex, he had a problem with anything and everything i do. I couldn take it so finally i left him and am too happy to be single now.

U have taken the best decision. :j
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