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What are you most paranoid about the big day?

I'm an event planner on a day to day basis so I'm quite calm about the organising of my wedding but I am stressed out about my hair - it has a mind of its own and really struggles to be styled. Went to the hairdressers on friday to have cut and styled, got home and it was hideous, so had to go back to the hairdressers and have it restyled and its still not right so getting it cut again on thursday... this isn't the first time this has happened - hairdressers underestimate my hair.

Basically my hair hates me and I hate my hair!

I know I will have a trial for my hair and makeup but this is my paranoia!

What are you all worried about the most - maybe admitting your fear will go some way to dealing with it!
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  • aimee21j
    aimee21j Posts: 1,657 Forumite
    Rain- I look like Diana Ross when it rains on my hair.
  • rinroo
    rinroo Posts: 946 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    The only thing I am worrying about is my mother turning up...might hire a bouncer!!!

    Other than that...what will be will be
  • I have lots of my friends doing bits for me (cake, photos, entertainment, adjustments...) and I am worried one of them will fall but I have planned alternatives for everything except the photographer!!
    :TMSE B2B 4th June 2010! :T
  • Missk_3
    Missk_3 Posts: 281 Forumite
    Lots of things - but if i had to pick one - the photos - i hate them in the first place - so dreading having to have lots on the day
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  • IWantToBeFree_2
    IWantToBeFree_2 Posts: 1,831 Forumite
    I was most worried about what the venue would look like, as they had a wedding the day before, they were still cleaning up the morning of our wedding therefore the first time we would see the reception venue all set up for us was when we got there in the evening. We had a few things for tables etc and I was paranoid it wouldn't be as I wanted it.

    As it turned out, it was even better, and I really shouldn't have worried!
  • xJayJayx
    xJayJayx Posts: 616 Forumite
    H2B's mother making a scene with his dad's girlfriend... she went after her with an olive oil bottle once in sainsbury's...
  • Violetta_2
    Violetta_2 Posts: 3,588 Forumite
    edited 26 July 2009 at 11:17PM
    I'm worried about crying, scared I will blub all the way through the ceremony. I'd really like to make a wee speech to remember my mum & my oh dad but really don't think I'd manage it without crying & depressing everyone.
    I'm also worried about my dress, 1 will it be here on time & 2 if it does get here that I will look like an ugly blob in it!!!
    Booo!!!
  • Sammy_Girl
    Sammy_Girl Posts: 3,412 Forumite
    Violetta wrote: »
    I'm worried about crying, scared I will blub all the way through the ceremony. I'd really like to make a wee speech to remember my mum & my oh dad but really don't think I'd manage it without crying & depressing everyone.
    I'm also worried about my dress, 1 will it be here on time & 2 if it does get here that I will look like an ugly blob in it!!!

    Oh Violetta, has the dress still not arrived?? Any word from them on at ETA?
  • lindaatno9
    lindaatno9 Posts: 2,092 Forumite
    I worried about crying too and hubs set me off!! He was chocked and I was chocked so we spluttered our way through. Look back now and think how wonderful it was.
  • debs2327
    debs2327 Posts: 1,172 Forumite
    im worried and id be paranoid about the reception not looking nice as i went up there to a family party and i honestly dont think i like the venue plus it has little round tables which isnt going to look right , so just hoping we can make it look lovely with our flowers and table stuff not going to stress about it to be honest as long as our ceremony goes to plan thats the main part for us xx
    wins :- x2 hair dyes ,mascara, epilator,personalised card , glass photo ,
    comp angels please throw some luck my way
    :D:j:D:A:)
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