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Alcohol self help thread II

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  • harrie_2
    harrie_2 Posts: 1,582 Forumite
    morning all

    4 bottles of wine i can lager all weekend not good i know

    but not bad for me did ask last nite if i could have bacardi

    jon and suzy had this dissapointed look on there face

    same excuse but i been good:o

    my head turned round twice took a deap breath sipped the last of my wine

    went in the bath felt calm suzy says do you want me to sleep

    with you i said no your dad can

    he was happy i hadnt sent him to hell:o

    so i am feeling good today still not fixed but getting there:A
  • beer2006
    beer2006 Posts: 1,987 Forumite
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    Morning Shirley

    Feel bad that you had the wine, but happy you didn't have any bacardi. Was that over the 2 nights, the 4 bottles of wine? Are you planning to drink this week?

    ((((((HUGS))))))))


    AL, Well done for yesterday, big step for you, today I go to see my BIL and family, they are really nice, but I told him about it, right at the start, a week or two after the thread started and I haven't seen him since then. Concerned about how he thinks.

    In fact I haven't gone anywhere to dinner really (apart from Mums once) and no alcohol to sustain me.
    I've been worrying about it for a couple of days, in case someone else turns up there I don't know. Sounds stupid............
    At least I go in with 6 days under my belt, makes me feel a bit better.

    Bit of a night owl last night GP!
    “Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, pain of love lasts a lifetime.”
  • harrie_2
    harrie_2 Posts: 1,582 Forumite
    you be ok beer 6 days are good you be feeling stronger

    i dont really feel bad about the wine that was over 3 nights

    and days i stopped now couple weeks ago when i binged on bacardi

    i was suicidle on the monday all the good i done was wiped out

    didnt think i could pull back the venom i was spitting that day was

    terrible begged all day for a drink but the answer was no

    took me 2 days to get over it i not in any pain today so

    no bacardi was good i didnt winge for long wen the answer was no

    for the bacardi i can turn into a phyco if i dont get what i want
  • xmaslolly76
    xmaslolly76 Posts: 3,974 Forumite
    Goodmorning every body hope your all ok.

    There has been a turn of events with my cousin. i tried to conatct her last night after posting on here yesterday to see if she fancied going for a coffe or something. I spoke to her mom it turns out the other week after the doo she got completly wasted to the point where she didnt even know her own name and then went for a drive, she crashed in to a parked car thank fully no one was init and she spent the night in the cells. she was in court on friday and has been bound over until more evidence can be found. She was 6 time over the legal limit. :eek:

    The only thankfull thing in all this is no one was hurt. Maybe now her side of the family will take her problem seriously.
    :jFriends are like fabric you can never have enough:j
  • harrie_2
    harrie_2 Posts: 1,582 Forumite
    OMG they will have to take it seriously now

    she could have killed herself and others

    6 times over the limit god she may go to prison she got kids?

    could nobody stop her driving if i get out of my head my lot keep me safe
  • micheleen
    micheleen Posts: 1,635 Forumite
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    Morning all :wave:

    Well done Al yesterday, pleased it went all ok for you :j
    Good luck today beer ;)
    Having been good is no excuse shirl twak.gif but at least no spirits.

    Your cousin could be in serious trouble xmaxlolly :( 6 times the limit is not good. At least no-one was hurt though :o
    :j The £2 CSC = £48 in carton
    £100 banked Mar 06
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  • xmaslolly76
    xmaslolly76 Posts: 3,974 Forumite
    She as a daughter who is 11 her oh has taken her to his home town up north apparently they didnt know what she was doing she tends to go before she is drunk pick up a bottle on the way home drink it then try to drive home. Her soliciter has said she will defo loose licence no two ways about that his main concern now is to try and keep her out of prison but he feels that it is a forgone conclusion that she will serve at least 6 months behind bar. Apparently her oh thought her drinking was harmless and ignored it. I think someone has just woke up and smelt the coffee so to speak.
    :jFriends are like fabric you can never have enough:j
  • xmaslolly76
    xmaslolly76 Posts: 3,974 Forumite
    Oh yeah i keep forgetting to say well done to you all i have no idea from a personal point of view what you are all going through but it must be hell sometimes if not all the time.:grouphug:
    :jFriends are like fabric you can never have enough:j
  • beer2006
    beer2006 Posts: 1,987 Forumite
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    Morning mich, you stranger!
    Nice days :)

    xmas, thats terrible, just as you were planning to talk to her as well, thats a nice thing for you to consider to do btw, be prepared for some abuse, should have warned you.
    I don't know what trouble she will be in for 6 times over the limit, but could be very bad.
    Maybe you won't be alone in thinking she has a problem now, but don't count on it, I have seen it before with others.
    “Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, pain of love lasts a lifetime.”
  • micheleen
    micheleen Posts: 1,635 Forumite
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    Your cousin will probably also have a hard time getting her license back even after disqualification :( At the very least it will involve medicals, I know :o

    Unless there's new sentencing guidelines though I thought 6 months at Her Majestys Pleasure was the maximum allowed :confused:


    Hi beer :wave: nice to see your days going up too ;)
    :j The £2 CSC = £48 in carton
    £100 banked Mar 06
    V-Free : 4 weeks :)
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