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the probate office will send you a copy for a small fee.0
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sandraroffey wrote: »the probate office will send you a copy for a small fee.
This site has the details of probate offices.
http://www.hmcourts-service.gov.uk/HMCSCourtFinder/0 -
zzzLazyDaisy wrote: »A couple of questions, obviously you don't have to answer, but it might help to address your problem....
Are you a beneficiary?
If all assets and properties are listed as required, do you believe the total value of the estate exceed £350,000?
No I am not in any way a beneficiary.
My friend has died unexpectedly and unfortunately did not update her will as we (her friends) all knew she intended to.
The outcome is that a very unpleasant 'ex' of hers now inherits everything.
He has a daughter (or DIL) who is advising him as she is supposedly a 'solicitor'.
My feeling is they are not being straightforward about the estate.
They are also trying to evict a mutual friend who was the only one actually looking after the deceased and it was her that was intended to inherit. (My deceased friend had numerous health problems).
I realise that 'intention' is rightly no good in a court of law. The will was not updated and that seems to be that.
I just feel there is a real rush to 'liquidate' the estate asap and I wonder about it.
We have already been told there is no chance of any 'appeal' for my surviving friend to remain in the property (she was and is, paying a commercial rent).
I realise I have no actual evidence of wrong doing, but having met the beneficiary, the term weasel comes to mind.
So I guess I just want to be sure all that can be done is being done properly.:o0 -
ask a solicitor....unfortunately, you may have summed it up correctly....and a lot of "weasels" do get mentioned in wills, a sad but timely reminder for all of us to keep up to date with our wills...its not difficult to do....but saves headaches and problems for loved ones at a later date....I'm now a retired teacher... hooray ...:j
Those who can do, those who can't, come to me for lessons:cool:0 -
Just a check: was your friend married to the weaselly ex at the time of writing the will? And if so, were they still married at the time of death?
Divorce invalidates a will.Signature removed for peace of mind0 -
Divorce invalidates a will.
Err, NO IT DOESN'T
However on divorce, the Will is read as if the divorced spouse had died before the testator - the person whose Will it is.
But I note that the phrase 'ex' is in inverted commas, so maybe this information won't resolve the situation.
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I stand corrected.
I knew divorce did something.Signature removed for peace of mind0 -
It's marriage that usually cancels any previous will.0
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Just a check: was your friend married to the weaselly ex at the time of writing the will? And if so, were they still married at the time of death?
Divorce invalidates a will.
Or actually 'thank God, no'.
She would have been even more unhappy.
I do believe he had undue influence over her at the time they were together - she had a drink problem and a mental health problem and he took advantage without a doubt.:mad:
Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be any protection in this sort of a case as you're deemed to have been of sound mind. debatable.:eek:
Thanks all for the responses.:o0 -
I am so sorry to hear about your sadness.
I advise all my friends to read their wills once a year to make sure it still reflects their intentions. Sadly, a will is a legal document, and unless it is revoked it remains valid (obviously there are occasions when a will can be challenged, but they are rare).I'm a retired employment solicitor. Hopefully some of my comments might be useful, but they are only my opinion and not intended as legal advice.0
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