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Copies of wills

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  • sandraroffey
    sandraroffey Posts: 1,358 Forumite
    the probate office will send you a copy for a small fee.
  • DiggerUK
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    the probate office will send you a copy for a small fee.

    This site has the details of probate offices.

    http://www.hmcourts-service.gov.uk/HMCSCourtFinder/
  • A couple of questions, obviously you don't have to answer, but it might help to address your problem....

    Are you a beneficiary?

    If all assets and properties are listed as required, do you believe the total value of the estate exceed £350,000?
    Hi. Sorry to be so long returning to the thread.
    No I am not in any way a beneficiary.
    My friend has died unexpectedly and unfortunately did not update her will as we (her friends) all knew she intended to.
    The outcome is that a very unpleasant 'ex' of hers now inherits everything.
    He has a daughter (or DIL) who is advising him as she is supposedly a 'solicitor'.
    My feeling is they are not being straightforward about the estate.
    They are also trying to evict a mutual friend who was the only one actually looking after the deceased and it was her that was intended to inherit. (My deceased friend had numerous health problems).
    I realise that 'intention' is rightly no good in a court of law. The will was not updated and that seems to be that.
    I just feel there is a real rush to 'liquidate' the estate asap and I wonder about it.
    We have already been told there is no chance of any 'appeal' for my surviving friend to remain in the property (she was and is, paying a commercial rent).
    I realise I have no actual evidence of wrong doing, but having met the beneficiary, the term weasel comes to mind.
    So I guess I just want to be sure all that can be done is being done properly.:o
  • Torby
    Torby Posts: 1,704 Forumite
    ask a solicitor....unfortunately, you may have summed it up correctly....and a lot of "weasels" do get mentioned in wills, a sad but timely reminder for all of us to keep up to date with our wills...its not difficult to do....but saves headaches and problems for loved ones at a later date....
    I'm now a retired teacher... hooray ...:j

    Those who can do, those who can't, come to me for lessons:cool:

  • Savvy_Sue
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    Just a check: was your friend married to the weaselly ex at the time of writing the will? And if so, were they still married at the time of death?

    Divorce invalidates a will. :wink:
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  • Baggysdad
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    Divorce invalidates a will. :wink:

    Err, NO IT DOESN'T

    However on divorce, the Will is read as if the divorced spouse had died before the testator - the person whose Will it is.

    But I note that the phrase 'ex' is in inverted commas, so maybe this information won't resolve the situation.

    B
  • Savvy_Sue
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    I stand corrected.

    I knew divorce did something.
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  • Biggles
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    It's marriage that usually cancels any previous will.
  • Savvy_Sue wrote: »
    Just a check: was your friend married to the weaselly ex at the time of writing the will? And if so, were they still married at the time of death?

    Divorce invalidates a will. :wink:
    Sadly no.
    Or actually 'thank God, no'.
    She would have been even more unhappy.
    I do believe he had undue influence over her at the time they were together - she had a drink problem and a mental health problem and he took advantage without a doubt.:mad:
    Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be any protection in this sort of a case as you're deemed to have been of sound mind. debatable.:eek:
    Thanks all for the responses.:o
  • zzzLazyDaisy
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    I am so sorry to hear about your sadness.

    I advise all my friends to read their wills once a year to make sure it still reflects their intentions. Sadly, a will is a legal document, and unless it is revoked it remains valid (obviously there are occasions when a will can be challenged, but they are rare).
    I'm a retired employment solicitor. Hopefully some of my comments might be useful, but they are only my opinion and not intended as legal advice.
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