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Not married, splitting up. How do the finances work?
littlehussy
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My friend has been trapped in a relationship which is no longer a happy one. She lives in her partners house, but owns a very small property that she could move into if necessary, but it is not really big enough for more than one person to live in. She has son, 11 y. o. from her previous marriage.
She wants out, but over the years her savings (previous divorce settlement) have dwindled as she has contributed towards various home improvements in her partners house.
Her partner has been the main breadwinner, but she has always worked. Her son's father has not been forthcoming with maintenance and so the current partner has helped to support him financially.
Can anyone tell me, does she have any right to recoup the money that she has paid into his property. She is scared that she doesn't have a leg to stand on and could end up walking away with less than she started with?
It is unlikely to be a friendly split.
She wants out, but over the years her savings (previous divorce settlement) have dwindled as she has contributed towards various home improvements in her partners house.
Her partner has been the main breadwinner, but she has always worked. Her son's father has not been forthcoming with maintenance and so the current partner has helped to support him financially.
Can anyone tell me, does she have any right to recoup the money that she has paid into his property. She is scared that she doesn't have a leg to stand on and could end up walking away with less than she started with?
It is unlikely to be a friendly split.
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No it's his house. At least she is lucky enough to have somewhere to go and even luckier to be able to start her life again hopefully finding a much better partner. Hugs to both of you.Barclaycard 3800
Nothing to do but hibernate till spring
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It looks like she possibly has no claim.
Have look here
Looks like some people have been through this already.
Look at page 4 here
Yours
CalleyHope for everything and expect nothing!!!
Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz
If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin0 -
She clearly has not been 'trapped' in a relationship. She chose to stay.
I don't know what legal claims she may have but morally she should walk away and keep her dignity.
GGThere are 10 types of people in this world. Those who understand binary and those that don't.0 -
ok, maybe trapped is the wrong word to use, but circumstances, which I'm not going into, have dictated that she has had very little choice until now.0
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