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help with claiming DLA Congital nystagmus

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  • kelly_2009
    kelly_2009 Posts: 67 Forumite
    Hippygirl wrote: »
    Also think about whether he can read use by dates, see mould or damage on food, see when it is cooked (or more to the point, when it is unsafe because it has not been cooked long enough). You're thinking here about a main meal - i.e. preparing a meal from scratch without any assistance - what exactly might he need help with.

    He is unable to prepare food safley i.e cut food up. He has to be assisted with all cooking due to mainy reason e.g opening food packets, checking food is cook as he has trouble reconising colours . Cannot read seal by dates without a maginfire.
  • carlislelass
    carlislelass Posts: 1,776 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    my husband is registered blind and gets low rate DLA...even though he has other problems he can`t claim next rate up.
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    Had thoughts of other things that might be relevant - communication, can he look up a number in the phone book? Does he need help reading the mail? Writing letters? Bathing, could he read the labels to know what was shampoo/conditioner/shower gel? being outdoors, would he see a car coming to know when it's safe to cross the road? Safety, if someone came to the door would he be able to read their badge to know if they were bogus or not?

    I know how horrible it is to look at things you can't do, and realise how many things that you've adapted to are actually a struggle, but unfortunately that's the way the forms are. But they're worded so it's hard to think of all the things that might be relevant to a situation.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • calleyw
    calleyw Posts: 9,896 Forumite
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    Ames wrote: »

    I know how horrible it is to look at things you can't do, and realise how many things that you've adapted to are actually a struggle, but unfortunately that's the way the forms are. But they're worded so it's hard to think of all the things that might be relevant to a situation.

    Agree with you on that. There are always things that you forget about. And because you do it another way or don't even do it all you don't think about it.

    Best thing to do is as has already been said is to keep diary. Also take a typical day and go through it step by step and work out the help he needs for each activity.

    e.g

    Getting out of bed
    Showering and shaving and any other personal care needs
    Making Breakfast
    Making a hot drink
    Making Lunch
    Going out on his own
    making a snack
    Any help he needs with leisure activities

    The list is endless

    All the best.


    Yours


    Calley
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

    If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
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