:( council tax trouble.

crutches

been out to take dd to drama class(free;)).feeling very rough which i know is stress...my fault.
DH promises to phone council but doesn't.Have said how important it is but"millions of other things are important too".The stress of caring is making him very cynical/depressed and not helping his high blood pressure at all.

crutches

dh was waiting to get em to bde beecause i was fussing.He's sorted something and is taking over the £ as i forget things.lightbulb moment fro him.
2 weeks ago i got lost in my local town and waited for my son from school at the clock with all the school children......he left home 2 yrs ago!
sorry about the talk this morning.dd took an overdose 3 mths ago becaue the lea were forcing her to go to that place where they teach you sats and things and she hates it so its on my mind.
thanks for all the suport.SS were useless b4.wrote a report saying we were entitled to help under parliment rules but then had no money to suport us.when we nrly lost the house the reply was"ooh sounds serious! try the CAB and let me know yr new address!"
love and support to you all

crutches

Dh spoke to the man.
today we got a new court date and a form to return to confirm receipt.Council asked for adjournment for us for nonreceipt.
i suppose that was helpful?
end of may.breathing space.
perhaps we can get some accounts sorted by then.and some £ in.
if i cld manage the little one DH cld sort his accounts out but thats ac pipe dream
dss medical on tues .If that benefit goes then i give up.DH coming with me to say how little i can do.
thanks for all yr help

lynzpower

Crutches

I know things are hard for you to get down but can you answer me 3 questions

1. Are you getting council tax benefit?
2. Is the reason you are being taken to court because the council tax benefit hasnt been paid properly
3. Do you have a social worker, or anyone from a charity etc helping you with money.

If you want you can send me a PM where I can answer in private if you prefer.

Glad you have breathing space xx

QueenB.

Just wanted to also say hang on in there.

What is happening is not your fault and i am sure that will be taken into account.

please talk with Lynzpower you have nothing to lose by doing so.

It seems clear to me that you and your family need some help and some support.

Sending HUGS your way. :grouphug:

WelshWoofer

Hi,
I really feel for you. I have a disabled sisiter who without help from me and parents would not be able to manage finances etc herself. I know it's really hard and that you feel under enormous pressure. Do you get things like attendance allowance? If so try asking asking for a social worker to come out and help you sort things - you have to keep nagging and asking for a second opinion until you get one that you like and trust. We did and now are a bot happier with the help we are getting. Do you have family/close friend that can spend a little bit of time helping you sort through things? Your partner is probably wound up and trying his best but men have a habit of ranting and raving and not getting much done! We get all the rubbish jobs!
Please don't worry too much - what about legal aid to help you try to sort things?
Don't know too much about the law etc but I'm sure that noone would blame you for getting things a bit wrong and mixed up - surely your doctor can help by writing a referal about your conditions and their implications?

Please hang in there and try not to worry too much (easier sid than done I know!)

Thinking of you
Rachel.

beanielou

Crutches
Im disabled as well & know how hard it is.
Hang in there
Could someone from CAB come out to do a home vist(they can do this in some circumstances)
Im sure Lynz could help you out as well.
Keep posting
thinking of you.
im doing a 'dealing with your chronic condition' couse at the mo so will keep u poisted if I learn anything helpful.