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  • wifeforlife
    wifeforlife Posts: 2,735 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic
    Just remember your not alone and you'll get alot of support from the people here

    Cath
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Why dont you tell him that and ask him about how to withdraw your equity if things havent perked up. See what he says then.
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • loopyloulou_3
    loopyloulou_3 Posts: 1,269 Forumite
    he has already asked to get all the equity out and split it. I dont want to do that as it wont touch the sides and i think we should get ourselves out of this situation the hard way.
    oh i just dont know what to do
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Lou, what did he suggest, selling up ?
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • loopyloulou_3
    loopyloulou_3 Posts: 1,269 Forumite
    well the stress on our relationship caused by this debt could cause this to happen.
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Phew lou big hug for you from me xx
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
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