The Trials and Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

codemonkey

Can I join the fertility dance? Feeling like there's no point trying anymore. Didn't even bother to track my last cycle.

teaandcakeordeath

codemonkey wrote: »

Can I join the fertility dance? Feeling like there's no point trying anymore. Didn't even bother to track my last cycle.

This is what I've done for the past 3 cycles- except for this one as used my last opks for the hell of it. Now AF is playing silly !!!!!!s and hasn't come... 20DPO. !!!!!!. (BFN yesterday before went for MRI) Am NEVER tracking cycle again.

Wonder what the fertility dance looks like. In my head it's Carlton's dance off the Fresh Prince...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEMmq2tW5Bo

*fringing and crop tops optional.

codemonkey

I thought more something like Phoebe from Friends trying to seduce Chandler
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OvTh_qBgvcw

teaandcakeordeath

As one of life's rythmically challenged I'm ashamed to admit that's how I dance normally...

codemonkey

Me too. Except more out of time and more woodenly. The first dance at our wedding was agony for both me and DH.

teaandcakeordeath

Hormones are clearly ramping up for AF. Am about to throat punch the OH. He just said that he doesn't want our future kids to know they were conceived with IVF as they'd be treated like freaks compared to 'normal' kids and might be ashamed they were created in a lab. Projecting his own prejudices much? He was basically making out that they won't be as 'good' as a non-ivf kid. Raging. As though a kid conceived via a one night stand/ accident etc. has some sort of moral high ground because it was 'natural'. Idiot. I clearly need to go to bed before I say something irreparable.

Part_Mouse

Rowing girl not more advise just keep upping to the max dose.i mentioned about having the drilling and lap and dye done was was told to carry on with the injections.

vseviour

Sorry I've not been around, moving house, job interviews, etc.

Hugs Part Mouse, what mg are you up to now?

BZ, great to hear from you and glad all is going well.

Teaandcake, my hormones are the same, was listening to radio 1 and was pleasantly surprised to find I'm not too old to enjoy the music, but had a shouting match with Fern Cotton - she must have mentioned her son/maternity/pregnancy every 3 minutes!!! But the dances cheered me up!

My OTD is Monday, not feeling optimistic. Been cramping for a week, b00bs went sore for a day but back to normal now, and been dealing with stress, moving, unpacking, 2 job interview, 2 stupid airport security run-ins and an airport evacuation :-) Think life is plotting against me.

Hi to newbies, Emma and Skintcatt x

mrshappy

Ouch teaandcake. sometimes they just don't think, I find myself going off to bed or to read so I don't say something evil that can't be taken back when the OH says something spectacularly stupid-which currently is every time he opens his mouth x

I'm joining in the follie dance with a bit of The Birdy Song

Hi newbies

Vseviour-good luck for otd, sending you millions of sticky vibes and baby dust xx

Part_Mouse

Vseviour sending you lots of luck for otd. I'm on 2 ampules a day, was told I can go up to 4, does that sound right?currently searching for anything that might help ov on menopur.