Trying For a Baby III

smartie12

Like nunny says... it does only take the 1 little swimmer! And the same about the smoking... the healthier OH is the better.

(((hugs))) Cedrickerry

cedrickerry

thanks guys ... he has considered stopping smoking, but has been dieting for last year (lost nearly 3 stone) so couldn't do both at the same time. I think most of his stress is due to TTC (and now he's back to eating more, gambling more, and generally being on self distruct) I feel guilty for TTC and now for getting upset cos I know the added stress doesn't help, but can't stop myself!

dfree

i had the worst aching and pains confuzzled spent most of my time in the bath trying to ease them it felt just like the cramps and pains that i got with af.
any ideas anyone if these are symptoms or just a bug im soooooo tired all the time and feel really sick but not actually being sick also getting very strange feelings in my tummy like someone is pulling an elastic band its very odd never had it before.??

**confuzzled**

cedrickerry wrote: »

thanks guys ... he has considered stopping smoking, but has been dieting for last year (lost nearly 3 stone) so couldn't do both at the same time. I think most of his stress is due to TTC (and now he's back to eating more, gambling more, and generally being on self distruct) I feel guilty for TTC and now for getting upset cos I know the added stress doesn't help, but can't stop myself!

I don't know what to say to you hun, but I'm sure all your feelings are only natural ((((((hugs)))))

dfree wrote: »

i had the worst aching and pains confuzzled spent most of my time in the bath trying to ease them it felt just like the cramps and pains that i got with af.
any ideas anyone if these are symptoms or just a bug im soooooo tired all the time and feel really sick but not actually being sick also getting very strange feelings in my tummy like someone is pulling an elastic band its very odd never had it before.??

I had a hot water bottle last night...needless to say I was boiling:rolleyes:
dfree whens AF due???? Have you been exercising recently?? That could explain the feelings in the tum

I think I need help with trying to work out if to test or not!!! I'm so confused and aint a clue what to think anymore:mad: I so don't trust my body one bit:(

CAFCGirl

confuzzled.... ok hun give us all the details.
when's af due?
how long since u ov'ed?
what symptoms have you had?

smartie12

confuzzled.... I'm EXACTLY the same as you! I just don't know whats going on

3 days of spotting, browny and bloody CM. I'm soooooo tired and have really achey legs. I don't know if it's the leftover piggyness or what??!!:rolleyes:

TEST confuzzled!!!!!!;):D

**confuzzled**

:rotfl::rotfl:In my strop I forgot to type everything out:rotfl::rotfl:

Right well I'm now on cd35/33 (AF was due Wed 29th) which makes it 16dpo.




Symptoms are:-

• achy crampy belly(spreads into my sides) - a bit like AF but not the normal pains I get
• achy back - started Sat, but nothing new as I suffer anway:rolleyes:
• Had tender boobs around 7dpo but thats gone now, dunno if its my imagination but they look fuller to me(probably wishful thinking!)
• I'm getting tired easily and not sleepy tired more 'god I can't be @rsed' tired
• I get into bed around 10 and pass out til alarm goes off
• I'm having more toilet breaks than normal and never quite feel as though I've finished IYSWIM(not an infection tho)
• I'm getting headachy every now & then(I don't normally suffer from them)
• And instead of my usual iceblock feet when I get into bed I'm boiling hot(to the point I was thinking I'd got piggy sickness!)

Now to suggest theres no point in testing is as follows:-

• 1st wipe of the day was like EWCM but pink
• cramps like AF ones(which spread to sides)
• brown spotting yesterday
• blood spotting this morning(which is now turning bright red but not enough to warrant a panty liner, it's bog roll for me:o)
• I don't feel pg
• I'm too scared to test coz I don't want a bfn

Any opinions gratefully appreciated:D:D I've been googling hoping to find something that says 'No Effin chance' but not found it yet:o:rolleyes: I will keep looking though:rotfl:

EDIT:Smartie - I'm being stubborn and not testing til sunday unless I can convince myself its definitely AF:D

Oh and I've put on 2lb:mad: I lost 2lbs in the run up to AF date was 139lb on wed when AF was due and now back at 141lb, and i don't feel bloated or anything

CAFCGirl

i say test.... it'll put ur mind at ease and may push the old witch (if it is her) to come forward.... stressing about it isnt going to help your body in any way....

TEST TEST TEST!!!!!
Fingers crossed for you hun xx

smartie12

Ohmigod confuzzled.... YOU'RE ME!!!!! I have EXACTLY the same stuff!

The only thing is I bet your PG and I'm not!!!!

**confuzzled**

CAFCGirl wrote: »

i say test.... it'll put ur mind at ease and may push the old witch (if it is her) to come forward.... stressing about it isnt going to help your body in any way....

TEST TEST TEST!!!!!
Fingers crossed for you hun xx

It would put my mind at ease but I can't test today...I'm not ruining my 2nd NSD of the week for a [EMAIL="!!!!py"]!!!!py[/EMAIL] pg test:rotfl::rotfl:
No honestly I don't wanna know either way until me n Oh have time to spend together, which is Sunday at the earliest, plus we're going to his parents for tea(the meal:)) so will have to put a plan of action together straight away if its +tive! His mum is DESPERATE for grandkids:rolleyes::D

smartie12 wrote: »

Ohmigod confuzzled.... YOU'RE ME!!!!! I have EXACTLY the same stuff!

The only thing is I bet your PG and I'm not!!!!

:rotfl::rotfl:I was thinking exactly the same thing but the other way round:rotfl::rotfl:
Well at least if we have the same symptoms it's either we want it so much we're messing our bodies up or we are pg:eek::eek:
Can't wait to see your results tomorrow:D