*** 13th July Daily chat - come in for a blether

redsquirrel80

Morning all, hope you all had good weekends.. congrats Lou on the job :T

Feel shattered this morning - had the 'big talk' on Friday and the DFW bravery pills seemed to work - he was really accepting about it all then, but I've had begging texts all weekend and this morning he's insisting that it'll all work out if he moves in with me... err no! :mad: Spent the weekend at friend's place and wondering if I can get away with not going home again ever... :rolleyes:

tenmah

Morning

Got a week off work, so just sitting here deciding what to do!!

Seems wrong to spend holiday doing housework and stuff but on the other hand it is nice to have time to get things done!

tenmah

Well done on having the talk Red. Why do they always wait until you are at the end of your tether before promising to try harder? Do they not see and feel what we do - actually I know the answer to that!

redsquirrel80

tenmah wrote: »

Well done on having the talk Red. Why do they always wait until you are at the end of your tether before promising to try harder? Do they not see and feel what we do - actually I know the answer to that!

Yep exactly - and I don't want him to try this time, I want him to leave me alone!

(Land_of)_Maz

morning all -

Squizz, hope you're bearing up and just realised i was supposed to let everyone know you'd had the "talk" and were a brave girl! have now relaised i wasn't really online and when i was i forgot to tell everyone. In my defence, i was only on for 10mins late on saturday and there weren't many folks about.

Moving of mucho boxes and stuff went well over the weekend... i think big F is realising that he's gonna be left in a shell of a house when we've gone.... he's sullen and withdrawn and unless he's eating out, he's hardly eaten a thing...

i am being a hard faced cow about it all, but i need to be for my own sanity...

Sammy - you're right, am moving proper next weekend.

Pap - i got your card this morning in the post, thanks babes... it's lovely!

bookseller1980

Keep taking the bravery tabs Squizz.
Couldn't you just blitz the housework today Tenmah and then enjoy the rest of the week without the 'I could/should have' thoughts?

I'm off to the sorting now.

(Land_of)_Maz

tenmah - housework interspersed with reading in the garden...that's my suggestion!

Burlesque_Babe

has your DH had any kind of diagnosis Sammy? Could it be he is bi-polar - with the extremes of depression, the paranoia?

sallyx

Pants Squizz...he sounds like a bit of a bunny boiler have to say! :eek: Just keep pounding home the same message and if he doesn't back off then you will have to say you will get police involved for harrassment!

Sammy, I tell you, you are a saint....frying pan at the ready!

Burlesque_Babe

well done squizz. It does seem to be that it takes the absolute end of a relationship for true feelings to be said. The day Ileft my ex he was sobbing and said 'I love you so much, you are my rock'. Still brings tears to my eyes now