Feeling extremely upset and angry!

foxyd3vil12

have spoken to my sons dad earlier on today! surprise surprise, he aint got nothing to give me as he had to pay alot of money out again this week! ive had enough now! yes he does work and luckily he is employed now whereas last year he was self employed. CSA will definately be having a phone call now!!

as for my hours in work, think im going to have to phone ACAS or Citizens Advice. My boss advised me as I work say 6-cl, I get paid when i finish. I have always finished about 11pm as I work in the kitchen on some shifts and ensure it is tidy and clean when i leave. They have only paid me til 10pm due to managers not writing down my finishing time. I will be writing down what time i finish from now on.

dont want to work tonight! i just want to tell him to stick his job right now but I dont want to rely on state handouts! I only have done while I was pregnant and will never do it again! i was so bored of doing nothing much all day!

Zara33

A wise person once said never ever depend on maintenance payments, if you get them bonus if you don't then you need to budget. I know this is not what you want to hear, in an ideal world a NRP wouldn't p!ss their wages up as soon as they got them, when he comes begging for money on a Monday tell him to take a walk

Even if you go down the CSA route there is no guarantee that you will get a set amount every month. So again don't bank on getting this money, there are many ways that he could try and avoid paying CSA if he really wanted to.

Good luck.