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** Chitty Chatty Weekend 4/5th Chat**
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I've said until I'm blue in the face about going out - even for a couple of beers - many times and it became such a broken record, I have all but given up.
He brought around a leaflet weeks ago for one of the chinese buffet places in Poole - all nights and lunches half price until 8 July - ie tomorrow night - 5.50 per person. A few nights ago, I said we should go out before it runs out - perhaps tomorrow and he started with 'well, I am out Saturday - i won't be up to going out Sunday, they will have another offer another time, why should I be going out just because you say so etc etc etc'.............I gave up - again :rolleyes:
"Stay Wonky":D
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Burlesque_Babe wrote: »have to say s_s, he brought around a leaflet weeks ago for one of the chinese buffet places in Poole - all nights and lunches half price until 8 July - ie tomorrow night - 5.50 per person. A few nights ago, I said we should go out before it runs out - perhaps tomorrow and he started with 'well, I am out Saturday - i won't be up to going out Sunday, they will have another offer another time, why should I be going out just because you say so etc etc etc'.............I gave up - again :rolleyes:
grrrr - could you not send him home for a couple of weeks and say you need space? might make him think about what a relationship means cos he seems more like a lodger at the mo, flatmates are generally more sociable!Mortgage OP 2025 £7050/7000Mortgage OP 2024 £7700/7000
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”Do what others won’t early in life so you can do what others can’t later in life” (stolen from Gally Girl)0 -
Can I get a re-wind...........she has discovered that her 20p has a date on the front:rolleyes:
She's from Wigan..."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
BB, I would say to him that a relationship has to involve give and take - if he wants lifts/free lodgings/free meals (okay, he contributes a tiny bit towards those), then by all means give him that IF he is giving you what you need too.
There's nothing wrong with making sacrifices for each other.....if you are BOTH doing it.
In the meantime, stop feeling guilty, get another Pimms and spin another 80's YouTube tune, DJ lady! "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough.":smileyhea97800072589250 -
thats the one:D:T:T:T:TBurlesque_Babe wrote: »hmmmmm........I think I do remember Jinky.......I'm remembering something like £29 , Diamonique, QVC??? Or did I just make that up ?
Burlesque_Babe wrote: »oh !!!!!!..........sigh..........stop me now feeling guilty for having a drink and not being able to go and get him...........arrghhh, it's totally put the mockers on how I was feeling.
dont you dare feel guilty:mad:
he treats you like shit, you are NOT a taxi service, he never takes you anywhere:mad:why the HELL should you go and pick him up?
tell him you are having fun with friends and to go fuck himself ( sorry Bookie:o):heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls0 -
bookseller1980 wrote: »I sold my eternity ring too. He gave it too me the Christmas he was sleeping with someone else.:rotfl:
This seems to be a recurring theme..."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
Burlesque_Babe wrote: »oh !!!!!!..........sigh..........stop me now feeling guilty for having a drink and not being able to go and get him...........arrghhh, it's totally put the mockers on how I was feeling.
He had plenty of opportunity to arrange something..."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
thats the one:D:T:T:T:T
dont you dare feel guilty:mad:
he treats you like shit, you are NOT a taxi service, he never takes you anywhere:mad:why the HELL should you go and pick him up?
tell him you are having fun with friends and to go fuck himself ( sorry Bookie:o)
Bookie the prude?
BB - you really do deserve better you know. What would you say to someone else in your position?0 -
Baby is rustling. Better put the kettle on!0
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And find the cat!0
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