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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,697 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Buffy~when do u hear about coming off that plan thingy?
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  • beanielou wrote: »
    Buffy~when do u hear about coming off that plan thingy?


    Wednesday. :eek::eek::eek::eek:

    of course my boss could just lie again so I really have no idea.

    am semi bricking it.

    if I am still on it I will hand my notice in and if not then I will stay. till I find somewhere else.
    cheers for asking Beanie lovely of you to remember xxxx
    xx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    well folks, i have had the conversation... it was alright... he was defensive a bit, submissive a bit, angry a bit, submissive a bit more... and now nothing.

    evidently his promise to leave the house to me n erin if things didn't work out after our last big "relationship review" was a crock of shhit. so tomorrow i am going to see about 2 different houses to rent in my village...

    this is all terribly calm and rational... wierdly.

    and he's not suggesting it's his car or anything, so will be alright on that score i think.

    but bang goes all my childcare!

    andy murray's making heavy weather of it isn't he?!
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,697 Ambassador
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    Awwww Maz hun xxzxx
    He will be saying its all my fault.
    When I think about it why should it be bang goes all your childcare.
    Erin is his resposibilty as well.
    You haing the cats?
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    well folks, i have had the conversation... it was alright... he was defensive a bit, submissive a bit, angry a bit, submissive a bit more... and now nothing.

    evidently his promise to leave the house to me n erin if things didn't work out after our last big "relationship review" was a crock of shhit. so tomorrow i am going to see about 2 different houses to rent in my village...

    this is all terribly calm and rational... wierdly.

    and he's not suggesting it's his car or anything, so will be alright on that score i think.

    but bang goes all my childcare!

    andy murray's making heavy weather of it isn't he?!


    You okay Maz? Has he actually said you won't get the house? Can you go to your Mum's in the meantime? Or are you going to have to tiptoe around each other until it is all sorted?

    Big hugs :grouphug: You can do this you know:D

    Who gets the fish?
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,697 Ambassador
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    Still think you should change the car though.
    What about Maz?
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • huge hugs for Maz that was bloody brave. I know so many people in miserable/boring relationships. puts me right off!

    good stuff girlie xxxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Right, I'm off to bed.

    Maz you have my number if you need to vent

    Night all x :wave:
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Mazarooney are you ok, well I know you are but just checking. I think he probably thought he had his feet nicely under the table and things weren't going to change...I would say to him when is he going to look for a place? He did promise like you say and if he's got Erins best interest at heart he will know its best she stays in familiar surroundings.

    You make sure you get him to agree to take erin on set days so that you can have "you" time

    Big hugs hun you know where I am..was going to call you but if G is around didn't want to make it awkward for you xx
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,697 Ambassador
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    Mo too on the phoning thing Maz xx
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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