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How can I sell a house.

My wife bought a house with her ex-partner. They got a joint mortgage togeather, of which he has contributed nothing. They obviously split up, he dosn't live in the house although he is very unco-operative when we approach him. He is of no fixed address and the solicitors don't seem to care.
We would like to make a fresh start so please can someone help us or offer us some advice.

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  • Pal
    Pal Posts: 2,076 Forumite
    What do you mean "the solicitors don't seem to care"? A solicitor should be quite willing to give you the legal ins and outs if you are paying them.
  • terrierlady
    terrierlady Posts: 1,742 Forumite
    If i have read this right the ex partner is still written on the deeds of the property?
    As Pal has said see a solicitor, he will need to be removed from the deeds and I would imagine will not do that without some form of cash settlement, the home has most likely gone up in value since they brought it together and he must have lived there at some point?
    my bark is worse than my bite!!!!!!!!
  • Pal wrote:
    What do you mean "the solicitors don't seem to care"? A solicitor should be quite willing to give you the legal ins and outs if you are paying them.
    I mean that when we approached the solicitor, they said that they would be able to hire a private detective to make him sign the relevant papers to give my wife sole ownership of the house. This failed to materialise.
  • nmiah786
    nmiah786 Posts: 577 Forumite
    I mean that when we approached the solicitor, they said that they would be able to hire a private detective to make him sign the relevant papers to give my wife sole ownership of the house. This failed to materialise.

    Is that legalally allowed!!!!
    Debt at highest (November 2005) = £35,856

    Debt currently (August 2006) = £20,790
    &More £1,530, Egg £6,800, HSBC £3,760, Egg Loan £8,700

    Interim goal = £23,400 (Target: February 2006, Missed but acheived May 2006)
    2nd Interim Goal = £15,000, Target October 2006
    Debt Free Date = February 2008 BUT I'M GOING TO BE TRYING FOR SOONER!!! :p
  • terrierlady
    terrierlady Posts: 1,742 Forumite
    no one could make anyone sign unless they wanted too, he will im sure sign for an agreed amount of money.
    my bark is worse than my bite!!!!!!!!
  • kit
    kit Posts: 1,678 Forumite
    I have to say that solicitors dont seem to care.... I have been trying to sort out finances with my husband (soon to be ex) for over 2 years. He wont reply to letters and my solicitor says theres nothing else she can do and then writes to him again and charges me £50!
    2012 wins approx £11,000 including 5k to spend on a holiday :j
  • Ok then, what are our legal rights as law abiding citizens who are paying the mortgage and polocies that go with it?
  • kit
    kit Posts: 1,678 Forumite
    There is nothing you can do without the ex signing away his share of the house.
    Change solicitors and get them on it.


    EDIT - he will probably look for payment for this! He can even make any claim on the increase in price of the property since he left even tho he has not been paying anything towards it; I have done this as I am paying rent to live somewhere else due to him living in the marital home so I am getting half of the full value (when he finally signs the agreement!).
    2012 wins approx £11,000 including 5k to spend on a holiday :j
  • The_Geek
    The_Geek Posts: 71 Forumite
    Unfortunately unless he is willing to sign, there's not much you can do.

    If he's of no fixed address, would he not be open to the idea of cash coming his way? I can't see why he would turn down some cash but insist on having his name on a house he doesn't live in. Everyone has their price. The hard part is whether you can accept his price.
  • NSR2
    NSR2 Posts: 30 Forumite
    Ok then, what are our legal rights as law abiding citizens who are paying the mortgage and polocies that go with it?

    I'm not a lawer. But a "fair" thing to do would be to sue the other party to get your share of the money /assets back.

    Have you kept a record of the amount you've paid for the morgage?
    Can you prove how much of the morgage you've paid in court?
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