The Compers Inn - Part 20

cathyj

mad_gemma wrote: »

well I just got out of going to see my friends this evening - feel really guilty but they're in a park, playing catch, about 30 minutes walk from me and I've got a headache and I'm grouchy and they'll leave before I get there, so seems a little daft so just not going. Shame, as I haven't seen the guy who's down for months and months but I know I wouldn't enjoy being out.. *sigh*

hugs hun, hopefuly you will wake up tomorrow feeling better

mad_gemma

sweetiepie1982 wrote: »

Hunni, I can totally relate I haven't left the house in over 2 months, I keep avoiding it. I put off people visiting too, make up so many excuses. I know I wont enjoy myself and just want to come on the PC. I used to suffer from agoraphobia so I think Imaybe slipping back into it again.

Do you suffer with depression or anxiety? I do quite bad and I know that it doesn't help. Sorry if I have made any presumptions or you cant relate, just thought I would put my two pence worth in and let you know that you're not alone

Having a stressy day/night. Wish I had never got out of bed tbh xx

EDIT: rereading it would seem I am well off, sorry Hope you feel better soon

I'm a mixed up person. Some days a massive recluse, some days I can't stand to stay in the flat. I really did want to go see this friend and feel bad for not going but I know I'd be terrible terrible company but he understood and I'll see him at another friend's BBQ in August so it's not *so* bad. Today's just a grouchy day I think. Headaches don't help. :mad:

I have been told I probably suffer with depression and bi-polar though but I've never seen a professional about it..

blackmidnight

sweetiepie1982 wrote: »

Hunni, I can totally relate I haven't left the house in over 2 months, I keep avoiding it. I put off people visiting too, make up so many excuses. I know I wont enjoy myself and just want to come on the PC. I used to suffer from agoraphobia so I think Imaybe slipping back into it again.

Do you suffer with depression or anxiety? I do quite bad and I know that it doesn't help. Sorry if I have made any presumptions or you cant relate, just thought I would put my two pence worth in and let you know that you're not alone

Having a stressy day/night. Wish I had never got out of bed tbh xx

EDIT: rereading it would seem I am well off, sorry Hope you feel better soon

sounds like me lol! People have just gone and I'm so gald - I don;t like people

scottishfreebiehunter

:rotfl::rotfl:BM i am like that to, I am sociable but just dont like people in my house :eek::rotfl:

scottishfreebiehunter

Right a bit of a deep and meaningful question! I was clearing through house etc etc and found some pictures of my dad and Bro who both been in Police force etc and decided this is only regret I have in life is not joining up, due to going to sit exam and mind went blank and supposed to go back and resist it and didnt due to bloke was going out with at time.

So what I am asking you lot have you any regrets in life nosy no curious yes:D

Jokey

mad_gemma wrote: »

I'm a mixed up person. Some days a massive recluse, some days I can't stand to stay in the flat. I really did want to go see this friend and feel bad for not going but I know I'd be terrible terrible company but he understood and I'll see him at another friend's BBQ in August so it's not *so* bad. Today's just a grouchy day I think. Headaches don't help. :mad:

I have been told I probably suffer with depression and bi-polar though but I've never seen a professional about it..

You should see about it if you suspect it, it can be horrible. I am like you, I go thru phases, When I go out am a little wild, a different person. I have issues, haha. My OH (well sort of OH right now) doesnt understand and is worried I feel ok tho...

blackmidnight wrote: »

sounds like me lol! People have just gone and I'm so gald - I don;t like people

LOL!! That is like meee!! All smiles but wishing in my head they'd hurry n go. I pretend to fall asleep or yawn like mad, or drop hints :rotfl: god aren't I terrible :eek:

Jokey

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

Right a bit of a deep and meaningful question! I was clearing through house etc etc and found some pictures of my dad and Bro who both been in Police force etc and decided this is only regret I have in life is not joining up, due to going to sit exam and mind went blank and supposed to go back and resist it and didnt due to bloke was going out with at time.

So what I am asking you lot have you any regrets in life nosy no curious yes:D

People always say you shouldn't have regrets!! But I think it's impossible not to. I have so many!! Not doing well in school when I clearly could have done. Not standing up to the bullies in school or my bully father. I had my DS1 when I was 16 and that was so hard, I wish I had waited a little longer. There is just so many.

Ps, I love my DS1 soooo much, I dont regret having him, never once have I, just wished the timing was different (I was thrown out at 15 and lived in hostels and was very alone as a parent) xx

toniq

No regrets, lifes too short except wish i'd had more kids when i had the chance xx

cathyj

scottishfreebiehunter wrote: »

Right a bit of a deep and meaningful question! I was clearing through house etc etc and found some pictures of my dad and Bro who both been in Police force etc and decided this is only regret I have in life is not joining up, due to going to sit exam and mind went blank and supposed to go back and resist it and didnt due to bloke was going out with at time.

So what I am asking you lot have you any regrets in life nosy no curious yes:D

Trying for a second child, I would have put up the illness it causes me, but oh didnt feel he could cope with me and beth, I could have changed his mind.

I know its not on the same lines as a career but do regret not trying.

SFH we are being a bit heavy for a saturday night

lol xx

NoNameWoman

BM, I can't sustain a conversation with some people...if it is not a close friend I can't be bothered to start conversations etc..I happened to be out once with a couple I didn't know, him talking about all things that are so uninteresting to me and I had to nod and smile and pretend I care; her not reacting at all (like she's in a different world) yet she would text me at 7 am to say I saw you going to work etc

It is just that there is nothing in common between us and how you feel is understandable.

SFH, I have many!