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todays question

okay most of us are in debt and want to pay it all off but why is it just as the good stuff happens and money appears from some source whether expected or not why is it that something else appears that makes you need that money so that you spend it rather than paying it off your debt which was your original plan.

so my questions are who else does this happen too ? Why and what can we do about it?
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  • kar
    kar Posts: 218 Forumite
    My OH does that to me all the time. I'll sell some stuff on Amazon or ebay and tell him x amount will be in our account soon so i will transfer that to the savings and he will always find some other thing he'd rather spend it on.

    I've just started tranferring it anyway :confused: I'm specifically selling things to get the savings so that's where it's going (i don't think he notices to be honest)
    Current Mortgage - £156,633:eek:
    Expecting baby no. one on 27th Oct 2010
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    We got an unexpected £100 coming to us. its going in savings for our hol.
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • devils_nose
    devils_nose Posts: 170 Forumite
    I pay the final payment for my car on Friday - I've been looking forward to this for 3 years (after taking out a stupid loan/passport thing with Peugeot - DON'T do it!!) and one month before the car become officially mine, some $%*!!$ drives into my car in the car park and naffs off without leaving any details!! So I thought I would have the extra money to plug into my debts but instead I have to pay for someone elses clumsiness.. grrrrrr..

    Also I got an ickle bonus from work and the taxman/pensionman has nicked most of it!

    Why do we bother??
    Student moneysaving club - member no. 6
    Uni Reading
  • K9cuddles
    K9cuddles Posts: 2,202 Forumite
    Also I got an ickle bonus from work and the taxman/pensionman has nicked most of it!

    Why do we bother??

    Story of my life!!

    I've got some shares to cash it.. worked out it will pay for 2 new front tyres, service and road tax IF i'm luck!! :mad: One day I'll be able to treat myself!
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  • Kevicho
    Kevicho Posts: 3,216 Forumite
    Ill put it in the bank, try and allocate most of it to debts, but some of it will prob end in the pub for an extra night out :)
  • dottyanne
    dottyanne Posts: 1,530 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I think theres an evil debt monster who bites you on the bum again just when you thought it was safe......................................??
    Focusing on clearing the credit cards in 2018 :T
  • Alleycat
    Alleycat Posts: 4,601 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Oh, I so know what you mean. I am getting about £45 this month from mystery shopping assignments, so I thought, fab that will go towards our holiday. But no, we need to buy a travel cot for this friday, so it has had to go on the overdraft and when I get paid that will just about cover it. Its the cheapest travel cot I could find as well. Never mind.

    Is it Murphys Law or something?
    "I've fallen down a hole" - said in best Monty Python voice-over.
  • amosworks
    amosworks Posts: 1,831 Forumite
    People always get surprise bills all the time when bad/unexpected stuff happens. Maybe we only notice it more when we just recently happen upon some additional money? :)
  • Yes, you earn a bit on Quidco and then your washing machine door falls off!!!
  • Cantdance_2
    Cantdance_2 Posts: 200 Forumite
    I got a miniscule payrise yesterday (about £40 a month) and since we've worked out we can just about live on what we had already, I'm hoping to put that aside into a pot each month just in case things crop up like breakdowns or forgotten birthdays!

    Then if I get through a few months with nothing happening it'll be going off some debt!

    James
    Total Debt: Owe about £19,000 on credit cards plus £24,000 which is my half of joint loans.
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