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How much

My sister has asked me to look after her 9 month old son for two full days whilst she works.
I have done it before on the odd occasion and have always refused payment but this time she wants to pay me as she said she doesn't want to take advantage.
My question is how much do i charge her?
I am a qualified nursery nurse (not that i'm sure this matters) but have no idea how much is too much (or too little!!)
She is earning a lot of money for the job she is doing.
Any advice appreciated x
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  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
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    Well at the nursery at my work it costs £25 a day.

    Dont know if that helps lol
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  • The_Banker_5
    The_Banker_5 Posts: 5,611 Forumite
    I'd ask her for half what she is earning for the two days.

    Bottom line settle for a third.
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  • pukkamum
    pukkamum Posts: 3,942 Forumite
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    Do you not think half is too much?
    This is one of the reasons i have always resisted taking money before i don't want to be underselling myself but i don't want to ask too much!!
    I don't get nearly enough credit for not being a violent psychopath.
  • The_Banker_5
    The_Banker_5 Posts: 5,611 Forumite
    pukkamum wrote: »
    Do you not think half is too much?
    This is one of the reasons i have always resisted taking money before i don't want to be underselling myself but i don't want to ask too much!!

    I dont think half is too much.


    You will have a harder job than her.;)
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  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    i'd ask for £20 a day
  • splishsplash
    splishsplash Posts: 3,055 Forumite
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    Why not see what a Daycare or Nursery would charge, and base it on a percentage of that, maybe two-thirds or three-quarters?
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  • Kate78
    Kate78 Posts: 525 Forumite
    Find out what local childminders are charging.

    You want to charge her a fair amount, but as you say she is earning good money.

    £20 a day is nowhere near enough, I presume you'll be giving the child a meal etc so you need to factor in those costs. Even if you work it out on the basis of minimum wage (£5.73 ph) for an 8 hour day you're looking at £45.84. And your services are worth more than minimum wage, aren't they?;)
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  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    Childminders charge £3 - £4 an hour.

    Private nurseries around £25 - £30 per day...

    I wouldn't want to charge as much as a nursery for looking after my nephew.
  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    Kate78 wrote: »
    Find out what local childminders are charging.

    You want to charge her a fair amount, but as you say she is earning good money.

    £20 a day is nowhere near enough, I presume you'll be giving the child a meal etc so you need to factor in those costs. Even if you work it out on the basis of minimum wage (£5.73 ph) for an 8 hour day you're looking at £45.84. And your services are worth more than minimum wage, aren't they?;)

    I'd have thought she'd be earning this money tax free, i know i would.
  • bonty44
    bonty44 Posts: 439 Forumite
    How will this work when your nephew is older, i.e. will she be able to claim the vouchers to pay you as you are a Nursery Nurse (are you registered with Ofsted?)

    I pay £32 a day 8-5 at a Day Nursery, my friend in the same town pays £3 an hour for a childminder so that works out at £27.

    What hours does she want you to do?
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