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Should I stay or should I go?

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  • poe.tuesday
    poe.tuesday Posts: 1,858 Forumite
    you need to take control of this situation and get some self worth back, he is cheating on you, he is lying to you and he is taking you for a ride, if you are happy with this situation then stay, if you are not, then you have to get rid of him. I know it's going to be hard, leaving that cumfy armchair is hard but it will be harder to stay in the long run - life is too short to spend it with someone who treats you like a door mat and he is treating you like this because you are letting him

    so it's time to take the power back and do what's right by you and only you know that

    take care and keep smiling, you can do this, you know you can
  • Pee
    Pee Posts: 3,826 Forumite
    You deserve someone who is interested in you, and maybe you deserve more of a life than staying at home...
  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
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    I'm sorry but he's using you, and your life now isn't making you happier. While it's devastating to end a relationship initially, you'll feel better in the long term and can start to look for someone who wants the same things in life.
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