DFW Daily Chat 27 May

Bunnyinthelights

Night night all, going to attempt to colour my hair and then go to bed...

I do love you all xxxxxxxx

sammy115

spud30 wrote: »

I was at the pet shop today, thinking of you.....I was looking at the fish

and there I was.........going round and round in circles......

sammy115

I have to go to, Chloe is moaning its her turn on the laptop!!!!!

spud30

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Night night all, going to attempt to colour my hair and then go to bed...

I do love you all xxxxxxxx

Good luck with the hair Bun.

We love you too :kisses3:

LouiseJ

sammy115 wrote: »

No at school the embarrassment was caused by my father picking me up from school (when he could remember) in a white transit van with SNUFFY GARRAT THE URBAN COWBOY! written across both sides of it....

It wasn't cool to be the offspring of country singers 30 years ago....:rolleyes:

:rotfl::rotfl:Thank God it wasnt just me that suffered....

my Dad bought a decommissioned Ambulance, painted it bright blue and where the word AMBULANCE used to be he painted the words ARTHUR LVS NORMA

.........he has not improved with age:rolleyes:

scorgeous

Ellidee wrote: »

Well better than boring and suburban like me and mine !

Yeh and mine

My mum came to everything I was in, plays, choir, etc and the only thing my dad came to was my swimming competitions which he pushed me into and I got to a stage where I was so worried about losing and letting him down that I would be nearly sick before every race. I think that insecurity has carried on with me into my adult life, as I spend my life worrying about what my scorg thinks and making sure he is ok and trying to please him that I am miserable a lot of the time.

oops, sorry guys, didn't mean that to come out, everyone's got their own problems without listening to mine ranting on

Buffythedebtslayer

thank you for the compliment Pooky. I know you and Sammy are talking sense. I wish I could think like that

I think I am missing out by feeling like this. I don't date, I barely go out and all my clothes come from M and S.

I think i need to prove to myself once and for all that if I was "thin" my life either would or would not be better. Hope that makes sense.

Until I do that I will be stuck here going "if only" or "I wish" which I hate doing.

You know you lot certainly make me get stuff out of my head.

ZTD

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Pookie,

I know you are right but I fight daily with 'appearances' and what is real life.

I know I'm not a bad person but in the past couple of years I've done some things I am not proud of and whilst it appears I have a wonderful happy home life, my struggle with how I look is directly related to 'other issues' between my DH and I. It is so intrinsicly (sp?) intertwined that I feel I am fighting a losing battle.

I know there is so much more to how you think, feel and look than you're saying - but don't feel you are alone in anything.

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

You are all so lovely, and it must be frustrating to hear me whinge, I am sorry, I'll shut up now xxxx

This is the place to tell people how you feel. No need to shut up. :grouphug:

Ellidee

LouiseJ wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl:Thank God it wasnt just me that suffered....

my Dad bought a decommissioned Ambulance, painted it bright blue and where the word AMBULANCE used to be he painted the words ARTHUR LVS NORMA

.........he has not improved with age:rolleyes:

Lou :T That is hilarious :rotfl:

Burlesque_Babe

why are all the takeaways so busy? 90 minutes for my local pizza delivery place and 50 minutes for Pizza Hut (after constantly engaged tone!)