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What are my options for housing and benefits? (Marriage ending, need to move out)

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  • debrag
    debrag Posts: 3,426 Forumite
    how can he be affording to buy your deposit, rental and be a gauarantor but not pay maintenance? Is he not the father?
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    debrag wrote: »
    how can he be affording to buy your deposit, rental and be a gauarantor but not pay maintenance? Is he not the father?

    No, he isn't. I don't know who the father is.
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • catenorfolk
    catenorfolk Posts: 384 Forumite
    well instead of giving you the monies for the deposit etc, why doesnt he pay it straight to your landlord, leaving you out of the loop, so then the money isnt going through your account
  • TotallyBroke
    TotallyBroke Posts: 1,540 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    You really are having a rough time of it...
    Will you want your OH to know where you are living?
    You will need to register the child's birth in the area he was born. So will need to do that before you move. Have you got your date to attend yet.

    Hope things get better for you soon, this break up could also be affecting the other things in your life x
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