MSE Pregnancy Club XI

money_maker_3

Glamazon wrote: »

MM - would you rather have natural or CS?
Is it just the shock of spending so long think you HAD to have a CS but now you have the choice?

I know some people on here feel strongly about natural labour but is entirely up to you want to do!

Thats the thing, I just don't know !
I had a horrible labour the last time due to Jasmine not dropping properly and am not sure if I want to put myself through that again, but at the same time, would be nice to say I at least tried :rolleyes:
I have been quite happy with the fact that this one was coming out the sun roof, and had prepared myself for the no driving, etc... and the slightly longer stay in hospital, but now I just don't know what to think or do and I am sitting here crying cuz I am just so confused

searching_me

sugar i know someone with a car but were not on best term :undecided...
MM do what you prefer... whatever you feel safe with x

Glamazon

Ah huni - you've got time to think about it. You don't need to make any decisions right now - you can make a decision now and change your mind as many times as you like. It's our perogative!!

Please don't be upset!! I wanna hug you!!

money_maker_3

Glamazon wrote: »

Ah huni - you've got time to think about it. You don't need to make any decisions right now - you can make a decision now and change your mind as many times as you like. It's our perogative!!

Please don't be upset!! I wanna hug you!!

Thanks, I guess I have 3 weeks and can cancel the section if I decide to go that way, but I think I have a lot to mull over for the next week or so

searching_me

MM talk it through with OH and see what you both agree on ((hugs)) to you... will share some of my rolo ice cream if that'll cheer you up x

newmoneysaver_2

Oh, that's confusing MM! I hate it when you manage to get your head round things and then someone throws a spanner in the works. I'm not the worlds best decision maker at the best of times, I'm even worse when I feel under pressure. Just go with what you are comfortable with and what would be best for you and bubs. As glam said, you can change your mind as many times as you like.

Was it AM who was booked in for a CS and then went on to have a vaginal birth? Maybe a pm to her would help

Glamazon

searching_me wrote: »

sugar i know someone with a car but were not on best term :undecided...

If it's not too far what about getting a taxi to pick it up for you?!!

SAMI - I have sent you a PM and I need a reply ASAP cos I'm not in work after tomorrow and I need to know if you want me to leave you something!!!

money_maker_3

searching_me wrote: »

MM talk it through with OH and see what you both agree on ((hugs)) to you... will share some of my rolo ice cream if that'll cheer you up x

yes please

searching_me

its to far for a taxi but im greatful for all the help ive managed to work out if i do not spend even a £1 more then my budget for the next 8 weeks i can afford it unless one on ebay is good ...
*waddles off to get MM a spoon and the ice cream* x

money_maker_3

Thanks NMS, yeah I think it was AM, will catch her later on parent thread