MSE Pregnancy Club XI

money_maker_3

just noticed that too beenie, whats the bets no one comes on for ages though !!!!

sparklygemster

not posted on here for a while but...ive had a miscarriage

Well...the doc thought it was implantation bleeding...turns out it wasnt ended up going for a scan to see if everything was ok, and the woman that was seeing to me basically said that ive lost it cos of my weight!!! not the nicest thing to hear, especially as its my 2nd loss. She also accused me of lying, saying that cos i didnt get a test at the doctors that i couldnt have been sure that i was pregnant...FGS how hard is it to tell the difference between a + and a - on a test!!!!!!

Sorry just had to have a rant, not doing very good at mo, and as im starting to come off anti depressants its not the best of times for me

tiamai_d

I'm back! What have I missed? Who's had babies??? I neeeeed to know! A week without bumpity gossip is no good (my god, I have forgotten how to type!).

Holiday was ok, not the best as it rained and their were a few issues with the cabin, but we made the most of it. So good to get a nice cuppa tea, the water down there was making us feel a bit ill.

Lil lady is still holding on, 26 weeks yesterday!

off to see if we have any money left to get a new washing machine.... :rolleyes:

Sami_Bee

sparklygemster wrote: »

not posted on here for a while but...ive had a miscarriage

Well...the doc thought it was implantation bleeding...turns out it wasnt ended up going for a scan to see if everything was ok, and the woman that was seeing to me basically said that ive lost it cos of my weight!!! not the nicest thing to hear, especially as its my 2nd loss. She also accused me of lying, saying that cos i didnt get a test at the doctors that i couldnt have been sure that i was pregnant...FGS how hard is it to tell the difference between a + and a - on a test!!!!!!

Sorry just had to have a rant, not doing very good at mo, and as im starting to come off anti depressants its not the best of times for me

OMG that is so awful! What a horrible person:mad: I want to come over there and beat that cow around the head!!

Hope you're holding up ok big hugs xxx

money_maker_3

oh sparkly I am so sorry to hear that. Did the woman know you were on anti depressants? they may be able to offer you some counceling or help of some sort if you need it. And we are always here to listen if you need us. If you are going to try again, dont forget the support on the TTC thread, those girls have been though a lot as well and many are in your position.

((hugs)) to you and yours xx

money_maker_3

Welcome back tia !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You were missed loads
Been loads of births, elle, SSS, MrsT, ticklepenny and greent

sparklygemster

wont be trying for some time, it was an accident this time as i was on the pill, so going to have the implant fitted which will give us a few years, as the OH is only finishing uni in a couple of weeks, so were not ready to settle down at mo, just want some time to do stuff on our own

My doc has said that i can go back any time and she will put me back on the anti depressants, but im not keen on starting back on them, so im a bit stuck at mo.

money_maker_3

See how you go for a while, but if things don't get better, the help is there, and don't be afraid to take it

Squishy

Hello all,

congratulations to all mums and new babies, labour vibes to those who need them, and birthday wishes to searching

*hugs* to sparkly

Been reading the site this week, but been so tired I hadn't mustered up the energy to post Feeling a bit better today though. We've finally been baby item shopping! :j Took advantage of the mothercare 10% weekend, plus a 10% code I had, and 5% casback on quidco so grand total of 25% off purchases so just too good an offer to miss. So we have now ordered a cot, a gliding crib, an over cot changer, and our pram: we're getting the bugaboo cameleon Plus some other bits and pieces as well. So a lovely morning ordering them online, then going to the shop to have another look at them Picked up a support pillow too while we were in the shop so feeling a bit more comfy

searching_me

first so sorry to hear your lose SG sending hugs ....

congratz on any birth ive missed , saw the pics of elle's rhys lovely pics and glad hes doing well ...

and as for me i spent another day in angry tears and the same guy gatecrashed and ruined my birthday so at home !!!!!! off, upset and just thinking the 4th birthday ruined x