Weekly Flylady Thread 11th May 2009; *** stars at post 804 ***

xx_Jo_xx

hollyh wrote: »

Hugs Jo i don't know the whole story about the breakup but how do you feel about his email?

I love him and really thought that I would spend the rest of my life with him.......but hes been back with his ex.

He wouldnt ask her for a divorce and always put her feelings before mine.......it came between us in the end and he had a choice.

It wasnt me.

Hes spent this past week with her (well I think he has) as shes been in hospital having an operation. So no doubt he stayed with her.

This is the first time Ive seen him since we split.

xx_Jo_xx

My response is as follows:

Yes I agree I have also made a mistake and I too am sorry that I did not get rid of you ages ago. We both know where you have been spending all your time so stop harassing me via email. You should also know that [my boss] has full access to my mailbox and can read both what you are sending me and my responses.

Please leave me alone and allow me to carry on doing the job I am paid to do as I do not have the time or the inclination to allow you to continue to treat me as you have. You made your choice perfectly clear and it wasn’t me.

Kind Regards

laura2481

:hello:Hi everybody!

I'm back in Really glad it's kitchen today as I left a load of washing up last night (feeling lazy!) and told OH I would sort it today

Measly Monday - Kitchen and dining room
Level One
Clear and wipe worksurfaces
Scrub down the front of units and large appliances
Level Two
Wipe and replace small appliances
Clean oven and hob
Wash windows and sills
Level Three
Wipe the table and chairs... clean cloth if necessary
Sweep and mop the floor
Degunge the fridge!

Pollybear

Morning all

One load of washing on the line, nearly dry, and I've just put the throws and cushion covers in to wash. Blowing a gale and nice and sunny.

I only just put the computer on so I did my list before checking and luckily that included the kitchen diner. I cleaned all the windows downstairs and the glass in the front and back doors as well as the doors themselves, and cleaned the mirror and television screen. Oh and I descaled the kettle and decrumbed the toaster.

So can I have a star for that please Toots?

I've also damp wiped the living room and computer desk and vacuumed right through.

The newspaper wasn't delivered today so I took the dog for a walk over there and had a little moan and got that, and also paid the bill.

Hope you feel better soon Pigpen. How are you today Toots?

Off to catch up now.

Excellent reply Jo Just keep remembering, he **** on you once, he'd do it again. You deserve better.

soappie

Jo - you may love him, but your relationship cannot continue as it was. If you want to get back with him, do it on YOUR terms. I.e. get him to start divorce proceedings first!

Just decluttered cheese on toast as a late breakfast. One load of washing about to go out on the line

hollyh

Well done Jo that sounds like a great response. Keep strong xx.

Quillion

xx_Jo_xx wrote: »

My response is as follows:

Yes I agree I have also made a mistake and I too am sorry that I did not get rid of you ages ago. We both know where you have been spending all your time so stop harassing me via email. You should also know that [my boss] has full access to my mailbox and can read both what you are sending me and my responses.

Please leave me alone and allow me to carry on doing the job I am paid to do as I do not have the time or the inclination to allow you to continue to treat me as you have. You made your choice perfectly clear and it wasn’t me.

Kind Regards

Go Jo :T now declutter that inbox and let us know if he replies.

GOing to defrag my pc whilst i have a nap x

xx_Jo_xx

soappie wrote: »

Jo - you may love him, but your relationship cannot continue as it was.

I know. x

Quillion - he wont, now that he knows my boss can access everything (which they had to do because I was off for so long). He wouldnt risk them reading the emails.

Justamum

Measly Monday - Kitchen and dining room
Level One
Clear and wipe worksurfaces
Scrub down the front of units and large appliances
Level Two
Wipe and replace small appliances
Wash windows and sills
Level Three
Sweep and mop the floor
Sort out sewing paraphernalia

Extras

1. Thoroughly clean the cupboard under the sink!
2. Run the WM's and DW's through a clean cycle
3. Clean all the filters and door seals etc
4. Wipe the back door down.. inside.. and out!!
5. Take DD2 for first swimming lesson.
6. WM
7. Hang out washing

This is what I need to do. I'm going to have a HHC now before taking DD2 to swimming.

rosepink1984

xx_Jo_xx wrote: »

My response is as follows:

Yes I agree I have also made a mistake and I too am sorry that I did not get rid of you ages ago. We both know where you have been spending all your time so stop harassing me via email. You should also know that [my boss] has full access to my mailbox and can read both what you are sending me and my responses.

Please leave me alone and allow me to carry on doing the job I am paid to do as I do not have the time or the inclination to allow you to continue to treat me as you have. You made your choice perfectly clear and it wasn’t me.

Kind Regards

Very dignified and very brave. I wish I was there to give you a hug and a round of applause! :T:T:T:T:T:T

I've got my work stuff ready and am (kind of) mentally prepared to raise the points I need to. It kind of helps that my work envelope hasn't arrived (with my rota, team memo etc) so I can ask my mgr for a rota when I go in, so that will actually help me in a way!

Am really really nervous which is stupid. They are only women, they are human, I shouldn't be so scared of them.