We'd like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum. This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are - or become - political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

name change

hi, could anyone please tell me something?
i have bean divorced for over 12 yrs now...i have always kept my married name as i had 2 young children at the time, but now they have lives of there own and familys of there own, i was thinking about going back to my maiden name!!! can anyone tell me do i have to get it done legal or can i just go back to my maiden name?
thank you to anyone that can advise.
sylvey
sylvey
«1

Comments

  • J_P_S
    J_P_S Posts: 148 Forumite
    to change your name by deed poll is afaik only £20 and you need a witness and a solicitor ( that may have changed) so i guess its as easy as that?
  • Amanda65
    Amanda65 Posts: 2,076 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Hi - although no expert I believe that in general you can call yourself whatever you want to as long as it's not for fraudulent purposes. If you want to do it legally I would type 'chaning name by deed poll' into google and seeing what comes up. A friend of mine changed her family surname form something rather rude to a more normal spelling and it was all done over the internet and just meant then sending the documents to the passport agency, DLVA, bank etc.
  • burbs_2
    burbs_2 Posts: 1,174 Forumite
    http://www.ukdps.co.uk/

    We have used this in the past and it stood up in court so they are official.
  • You can change your name to whatever you wish as long as its not for fraudalent purposes.

    PP
    xx
    To repeat what others have said, requires education, to challenge it,
    requires brains!
    FEB GC/DIESEL £200/4 WEEKS
  • Lillibet_2
    Lillibet_2 Posts: 3,364 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I just switched back to my maiden name (immediately) after my divorce, sent a copy of the divorce certificate thingy when I applied for new passport, driving license etc but it was never actually requested I just did it with a note saying I had reverted follwing my divorce, no problems so far.

    HTH ;)
    Post Natal Depression is the worst part of giving birth:p

    In England we have Mothering Sunday & Father Christmas, Mothers day & Santa Clause are American merchandising tricks:mad: Demonstrate pride in your heirtage by getting it right please people!
  • BJC_2
    BJC_2 Posts: 8 Forumite
    I agree with Lillibet, when you need to change/renew a legal document just send off your divorce p/work. For everyday use, you can change your name by "usage". This is where you become known by a name of your choice (a bit like using a nickname). Changing your name by deed pole is a formality.
  • fiobee
    fiobee Posts: 39 Forumite
    From a book I'm reading just now (Collins Gem "Weddings" ISBN 0007145047): "UK law allows a person to use any name they choose - as long as it is either their birth name, the name adopted on marriage or a name changed by deed poll." So I would guess you can just go back to your maiden name whenever you like.
  • Bossyboots
    Bossyboots Posts: 6,755 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    How old is that book?

    You do not need any document to change your name, you just do it. What you will need though is a document evidencing the change and you simply need a statutory declaration (a free model for which is freely available on the internet) which you take to a solicitor to have witnessed. The only reason you would need this is for organisations who are not prepared to simply take your word for it that the name you are using is actually you. The fundamental rule on name changing is that you cannot do it if the intention is to deceive.

    For someone who has divorced, production of the decree absolute is sufficient documentation to establish the change of name back to maiden name although I have heard that not all of the banks accept just that as evidence anymore. Legally though, this is all you need.
  • Luis
    Luis Posts: 637 Forumite
    When I got divorced, I did the same as other posters have mentioned - merely sent off all the docs (passport, licence etc) with a copy of the absolute saying I was reverting to my maiden name. This was in 2004, no problems anywhere. As my solicitor explained it to me, if your maiden name was Smith, then you married and became Jones - you have always been Smith 'underneath'!
    "It was not my intention to do this in front of you. For that, I'm sorry. But you can take my word for it, your mother had it comin'."

    Overlord for the Axis of Evil (part time) :D
  • margaretclare
    margaretclare Posts: 10,789 Forumite
    Hi

    CAB will do a statutory declaration for you and all they ask for is a 'voluntary donation'.

    There has NEVER been a legal requirement in England for a woman to take her husband's surname on marriage - it's just 'custom and practice'. And, as others have said, you can call yourself anything you like provided there's no intent to defraud or e.g. pretend to be heir to a title or something like that.

    Aunty Margaret
    [FONT=Times New Roman, serif]Æ[/FONT]r ic wisdom funde, [FONT=Times New Roman, serif]æ[/FONT]r wear[FONT=Times New Roman, serif]ð[/FONT] ic eald.
    Before I found wisdom, I became old.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 349K Banking & Borrowing
  • 252.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 452.7K Spending & Discounts
  • 241.9K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 618.5K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.1K Life & Family
  • 254.9K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 15.1K Coronavirus Support Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.