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  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    I tried that today and it totally backfired. Should I date women instead Z?
    No longer using this account for new posts from 2013
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Bun hun I know we have already talked about it and I totally understand. You need to make a decision thats right for all of you, think long and hard about it though!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Gemmzie wrote: »
    I tried that today and it totally backfired. Should I date women instead Z?

    Date men - not blokes - who are different to who you normally date: If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you always have.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    Date men - not blokes - who are different to who you normally date: If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you always have.


    Ain't that the truth.
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Gemmzie
    Gemmzie Posts: 14,876 Forumite
    What Sally said Bun

    That's what I'm trying to do Z, I'm dating guys I never would have before. Still getting rubbish end results. Too clingy is worse than too aloof!
    No longer using this account for new posts from 2013
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Bunnyinthelights wrote: »
    On a serious note---

    I love sex, but for me it's more the love and affection I miss. The hand holding, kissing, holding and cuddling-sex is wonderful-I love it to be fun and passionate but day to day, I just wish I could have DH tell me he loves me while looking in my eyes, kiss me (and mean it) and want to hold me.

    But if - like me - you do that sort of thing, then you get told "you're suffocating me" and "you're too dependant". So that's something that cuts both ways.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Ah Sal.

    What I want to do and what I will do are 2 very different things at this moment.
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Gemmzie wrote: »
    What Sally said Bun

    That's what I'm trying to do Z, I'm dating guys I never would have before. Still getting rubbish end results. Too clingy is worse than too aloof!

    Then you need to find out what they're actually like. They may just be "clingy" because they think you'd like that sort of thing.

    Some guys do try to please you know... (:eek:)
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    edited 3 May 2009 at 8:18PM
    :oI miss being held.

    I really do.

    Sex has featured so rarely in my life its not that much of big deal but hugs are really important.


    I sound like a right nutter. I forget things stay written - its not just conversation!:o:o
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Same Bun....I would like to commit murder at times lol ;)
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
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