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  • Smelis
    Smelis Posts: 33 Forumite
    Hi Billy,

    You sound like a real decent chap wanting to provide equally for your children, there are some people out there (men and women) who don't give a damn about supporting there off spring and they seem to be the ones who blinking get away with it. :mad:

    My hubby has always wanted to support his children, has always done so, plus extra's for uniforms etc! :mad: and he still gets shat on! :mad:

    Please do keep us posted and good luck.

    Smelis
  • smokey112
    smokey112 Posts: 541 Forumite
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    Smelis wrote:
    Hi Billy,

    You sound like a real decent chap wanting to provide equally for your children, there are some people out there (men and women) who don't give a damn about supporting there off spring and they seem to be the ones who blinking get away with it. :mad:

    My hubby has always wanted to support his children, has always done so, plus extra's for uniforms etc! :mad: and he still gets shat on! :mad:

    Please do keep us posted and good luck.

    Smelis

    Sorry slightly OT - Smelis we have the same problem with OH ex - we have always provided for his 3, clothes, uniforms etc - we have them every weekend, school holidays etc - but that is not good enough for her - we cant physically have them anymore and she used to use them as pawns as well - now she is settled with a new partner things have eased a little.

    OP - sorry to hear of your troubles with the CSA - we had loads of issues with them years ago - but we got round them. his ex was claiming benefits which is why they chased us for money - what makes me angry is that none of the money paid by us went to the kids - we go round that though

    Hope all works out for you

    Ang
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    BCSC NO 40
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