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will contesting advice please

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  • paulnstar
    paulnstar Posts: 22 Forumite
    All,

    Many thanks for all your comments and advice.

    My Fianc!'s Mum has told me how she was on the receiving end of a family member contesting the will and it put her through hell. So I total understand both sides of the argument to let live etc.

    My Nan was perfectly capable I think of doing this deliberately as I think she was hoping my mum would "baby sit" her during her last years even though she done nothing to deserve it. I think when my mum moved to Cyprus she changed the will and knew what she was doing out of spite.

    Just try telling that to my Mum!

    I deleted my Aunt's mobile after the funeral last year as I didn't want to call her until my head was clear, do you think I should call her now and ask why she hasn't contacted me (she has my number) to explain or to just post me some photo's of my Granddad???

    I don't want to upset my mum - but personally I would like some closure too.

    Many thanks
    Paul
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