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invites - when??

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  • Lemon_Tree
    Lemon_Tree Posts: 10,202 Forumite
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    we got married at the end of sept and sent them out early July, basically gave people 6 weeks to respond and us 6 weeks from that date before the wedding.
  • bluezone
    bluezone Posts: 772 Forumite
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    Hi, we have sent all ours out for a mid july wedding. We sent them out about 2 weeks ago and have a rsvp date for the 8th may so that a) it gives them 5 weeks to decide if they are coming and b) gives us 5-6 weeks to know definate numbers etc. As yours is november I would suggest beginning of september?
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  • kr15snw
    kr15snw Posts: 2,264 Forumite
    Ill be sending out save the date cards as soon as the venue is booked, so over a year in advance.

    Invites will go out about 4 months before :)
    Green and White Barmy Army!
  • I'm sending mine out within the next week for a 4th July wedding, gives us around 11 weeks.
  • MrsAudus2b
    MrsAudus2b Posts: 493 Forumite
    Hi guys

    Wedding date is 5th September. I sent save the date cards out at end of August (one year before) and will be posting the invites next week! Reply date is by end of May - venue needs numbers and it will help with my budget planning to know as soon as possible
    x
    Joint debt with OH at LBM Sept 08 (excluding mortgage & student loan) - £34,069 :eek:

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  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,892 Forumite
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    Must admit I've never heard of 'save the date' cards. Would have been of little use to me as we were engaged 6 months after we met and married a year later. There was therefore not a full year between deciding the date and when we got married. Is it that unusual these days? :confused:
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