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The Bankrupt Inn (Part Three)

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  • jenni75
    jenni75 Posts: 514 Forumite
    I see my little 'course correction' elsewhere has generated more discussion. ;)

    Oh, well, nature of discussion to get heated I suppose.

    Hi Merlin,

    I see a rather heated discussion going on too, unlike me not to dib in where there is a opinion to be had but think now I am best part through a bottle best I don't start in that one!

    jen xx
  • Merlinexcalibur
    Merlinexcalibur Posts: 1,699 Forumite
    edited 23 May 2009 at 8:22PM
    I know, was purely 'bad' of me ... but I felt it all needed some 'stimulus' to start generating more healthy discussion. Was merely some 'sleight of hand'. Still, it's all discussion. Which is good.

    Anyway, that bottle had a letter 'W' on it I think.
    Any help, opinions, views I may hold those are my own. Respect them as you would expect the same in return. Offered freely, is gleaned from a lifetime of experiences, knowledge gaining. Passed on to benefit others. I may be direct, ask you questions but those are to help you. Up to you if you choose to take it. I won't judge you either way.
  • Merry_Gentry
    Merry_Gentry Posts: 3,627 Forumite
    Still, it's all discussion. Which is good.

    Sorry to disagree with you Merlinexcalibur, but no, it's not all good. What if some complete newbie finds this place, hoping to be able to talk through their problems and that thread is one of the first they see? Will they feel they don't want to post in case they are judged or attacked?

    That's what the Discussion Time section is for - for discussions and debates. This isn't the place for it and I hope people ignore the posts so that it slides down the board into oblivion.
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  • Merlinexcalibur
    Merlinexcalibur Posts: 1,699 Forumite
    Yes, I know.
    Any help, opinions, views I may hold those are my own. Respect them as you would expect the same in return. Offered freely, is gleaned from a lifetime of experiences, knowledge gaining. Passed on to benefit others. I may be direct, ask you questions but those are to help you. Up to you if you choose to take it. I won't judge you either way.
  • jenni75
    jenni75 Posts: 514 Forumite
    I know, was purely 'bad' of me ... but I felt it all needed some 'stimulus' to start generating more healthy discussion. Was merely some 'sleight of hand'. Still, it's all discussion. Which is good.


    all discussion is good, Merlin. However me on a thread with people who in my opinion are devoid of any sense of care for their fellow beings is not good. Unless they have had to walk in the shoes of the life of a bankrupt, they should not judge. The thread seems to have gone a along way from the original op and onto a slanging match against us br's.
  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    Yes thanks Phil, these things no longer worry me - just a little entertainment for me! :D Can't do anything about the money as it needs the 9-5ers to sort it and of course its a saturday so they're all at home having a barbq in the garden!! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    How are you then, still doing ok?


    I'm really really good thank you :D
    (although sleeping a fair bit....hence the length in replying to you...sorry!)
    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • Merlinexcalibur
    Merlinexcalibur Posts: 1,699 Forumite
    edited 23 May 2009 at 8:33PM
    all discussion is good, Merlin. However me on a thread with people who in my opinion are devoid of any sense of care for their fellow beings is not good.
    This is precisely my point and why I deleted my posts in there earlier. Defending everyone and trying to put another side to debt. That it is never always the person's fault. The forum reopened earlier so I was one of the first in there.
    Any help, opinions, views I may hold those are my own. Respect them as you would expect the same in return. Offered freely, is gleaned from a lifetime of experiences, knowledge gaining. Passed on to benefit others. I may be direct, ask you questions but those are to help you. Up to you if you choose to take it. I won't judge you either way.
  • philnicandamy
    philnicandamy Posts: 15,685 Forumite
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    Sheesh....the forum's only been back 3hrs & its already trolldom....

    anyhow drinkies on me for the next round

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    We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will
  • jenni75
    jenni75 Posts: 514 Forumite
    well i am gutted, out of asti but now not able to drive to shop for more so what is in the cupboard thats goodness knows how old that i can drink? your guess is as good as mine? sat laughing at the devon farmers on brits got talent (or not as the case may be)
  • Merry_Gentry
    Merry_Gentry Posts: 3,627 Forumite
    Phil, I would LOVE a drink!
    This is precisely my point and why I deleted my posts in there earlier. Defending everyone.

    I don't mean to attack you Merlin, and sorry if it comes across that way but deleting your posts doesn't actually help the situation - in fact, often it makes conversations make no sense at all which again, doesn't actually help any newbies that are reading.

    On another forum I use, there is a 'time limit' on people editting their posts because often they can change their entire meaning by changing a couple of words.

    I totally believe in people's right to have discussions and debates, just not here - it isn't what this forum is about.
    Get free advice before embarking on bankruptcy: CCCS 0800 138 1111 National Debtline 0808 808 4000
    Business Debt Line 0800 197 6026 CAB Insolvency Service- 0845 602 9848
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