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Does anyone know how i can write my letter to inform my employer that im pregnant?

Im trying to find templates online but no luck so far.

And i dont know what to write in it lol.

Does anyone have a template saved that i could pinch please? :D

Or any ideas generally?

x x x :p

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  • Is your company large and formal, or small and informal?

    But generally - you want to include your expected date of leaving for maternity and when you hope to return to work, alongside a request for reasonable adjustments to be made. I'd also request a meeting with an HR person if you have one, otherwise a meeting with the relevant H&S officer to discuss your 'condition'.

    If you've got any special requests, it's also worth including them in the letter. For instance, if you find that you're suffering from morning sickness - then you should ask if it's possible to move onto 'flexitime' while you're pregnant.

    Just use common sense, really :)
    From Poland...with love.

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  • could you not talk to your boss in private?

    maybe just say i would like to speak to you regarding a issue i have but dont worry its nothing serious.
  • could you not talk to your boss in private?

    maybe just say i would like to speak to you regarding a issue i have but dont worry its nothing serious.

    No, no, no. Don't do this - it leaves you no paper trail, and if the boss in question is resentful towards your pregnancy (and many are!) - then he can be very awkward in private and you'll have no paper trail to back up any potential legal action in the future.

    A letter avoids all doubts and allows the employer to clearly see what might be needed.
    From Poland...with love.

    They are (they're)
    sitting on the floor.
    Their
    books are lying on the floor.
    The books are sitting just there on the floor.
  • Rachel83
    Rachel83 Posts: 335 Forumite
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    Also you don't actually have to tell them until 25 weeks unless you want to, or your jobs physical i didn't tell my employer until about 15 weeks. I didn't want the baby fuss and wanted to get the 1st trimester out of the way just incase :o

    My first letter just basically said i'm writing to inform you in pregnant with an expected due date of *inserts due date* and that was about it. They were really good with risk assesments and little chats throughout the pregnancy and any other requests or anything were put forward in these meetings. Followed by a tonne of paperwork, i'm sure theres too much paperwork in some places lol
  • mookiandco
    mookiandco Posts: 1,294 Forumite
    Evansangel wrote: »
    Im trying to find templates online but no luck so far.

    And i dont know what to write in it lol.

    Does anyone have a template saved that i could pinch please? :D

    Or any ideas generally?

    x x x :p

    How dare you stray from the pregnancy thread, get back there this instant!!
    There is a personalised template here if you complete all the details it will come up with a letter to your employers and other info too.
    http://tiger.direct.gov.uk/cgi-bin/maternity.cgi
    Proud Mummy to Leila aged 1 whole year:j
  • Dear HR department (copied to your boss)
    I would like to officially inform you that I am pregnant with a due date of ...... I will expect to take maternity leave approximiately .... weeks before the due date. Please cuold we arrange ameetng with a member of the HR team to discuss implications for maternity leave etc.

    hope this helps.
  • Glamazon
    Glamazon Posts: 8,401 Forumite
    EA - go back to the pregnancy thread, I'm sure one of the girls posted a really detailed letter along with one for OH to use for Paternity leave.

    Thought it was Mookie or NMS :confused:
    A very busy Yummy Mummy to a 1 year old gorgeous boy :smileyhea

    Where does the time go? :think:
  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
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    mookiandco wrote: »
    How dare you stray from the pregnancy thread, get back there this instant!!
    There is a personalised template here if you complete all the details it will come up with a letter to your employers and other info too.
    http://tiger.direct.gov.uk/cgi-bin/maternity.cgi

    :rotfl: Im sorry *mumbles and shuffles back to pregnancy thread*

    But thanks everyone, i'll get onto writing that letter tonight :D

    x x
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