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What to do? Some help please

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My MIL to be has just thrown my OH out of the house and he's not welcome to return until he "splits up with that wh*** and comes to his senses"

Anyway, that aside, will the army provide some sort of emergency housing for him as he really doesnt know anyone that would put him up til he can get something more permanant sorted?

Any advice at all would be really helpful. I live in England, he in Belfast so moving in with me isnt an option no matter how much we want to do that :D
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  • They may not provide any housing, but they may give him single accomodation on camp. He need to speak to his admin staff ASAP.
  • Andy_L
    Andy_L Posts: 13,028 Forumite
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    Who's in the Army, him or you? Are you married or not?
  • NOVASTAR
    NOVASTAR Posts: 233 Forumite
    I read your earlier post about the MIL and I guess she took YOU seriously when you told her you were getting married to her son!! OOPs - i'm sure that the army will be able to let him stay in the barracks. Good luck with everything though.
  • ICATQ
    ICATQ Posts: 664 Forumite
    There will be some form of accommodation available, SLA or transit irrespective of circumstances.
  • Alias_Omega
    Alias_Omega Posts: 7,917 Forumite
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    I think that an unmarried partner, who is not in the forces will not be accomodated.

    You can check the JSP's but if your not in the force, a dependant or married to the forces there is no help me thinks.

    Good luck though,

    Regards,

    AliasOmega
  • gibboelli
    gibboelli Posts: 222 Forumite
    I didnt mean for us both to stay in, just for him.
    As it's turned out for the moment her threat was an idle one but he's gonna talk to his CO tmw morning about getting a more permanant placement at the barracks.
    Some people feel the rain...others just get wet
  • agree with above
  • Cat695
    Cat695 Posts: 3,647 Forumite
    gibboelli wrote: »
    I didnt mean for us both to stay in, just for him.
    As it's turned out for the moment her threat was an idle one but he's gonna talk to his CO tmw morning about getting a more permanant placement at the barracks.


    Talk to the CO why?? he goes to his CQMS/SQMS and gets a room....he's a singley so they can't refuse him a room.....no need to get the CO involved
    If you find yourself in a fair fight, then you have failed to plan properly


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  • Alias_Omega
    Alias_Omega Posts: 7,917 Forumite
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    He would simply head down the guard room, pick up a transit room & then the following working day source either another transit room, or a room to keep.
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