*Daily Chat Thread* 3rd March 09 - HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAZ

Burlesque_Babe

Snaggles wrote: »

I didn't sit around and wait for him to ring me - I rang him. He wasn't busy, and was free to talk. So he was just keeping me waiting, playing yet another stupid game. He immediately started asking how I was and saying he was sorry.

I told him everything I wanted to tell him (it was very brief), he tried to apologise and said he had never wanted to make me feel like that. I said he had never cared about how I felt.

He got on his high horse and started telling me quite angrily not to tell him how HE feels, so I told him rather forcefully not to speak to me in that tone of voice again because I wouldn't put up with it any more.

He started trying to lay the blame with me, so I asked him to think about all the failed relationships he has had, all the women who have failed to live up to his standards, and consider, just for a minute, that the common denominator in all of them is him.

I told him to stay out of my life, I told him I had deleted all the photos and messages he had ever sent, and I never wanted to hear from him or see him again (I could hear him feebly saying 'please do delete everything' in a cocky tone of voice....but I just kept talking over him and he shut up).

Then I stopped talking, there was a long pause (actually thought he'd hung up), and then he said really coldly 'had your say?'

I just said 'yes, thank you....goodbye Dave' and hung up.

Not sure it was the right thing to do really, I'm shaking and crying (I did not cry on the phone though), but I'm glad I took control and finally told him where to go.

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Ellidee

Snaggles - well done on taking the bull by the horns. I know it can't have been easy for you but I also think you did the right thing. Take it easy hun and please be kind to yourself. BIG hugs XX

Lucifa73

I'm a Mummy!!!:j :j :j

Trying to get pics uploaded but photobucket is taking an age and Hubbles has mislocated the camera cable thingy:rolleyes:

As you know I had to be inducedand went into hoispital on Tuesday 25th at Term + 13. After 3 lots of Prostin the doc announced on the Thursady morning at 8ish that I could be admitted to the labour ward as things were progressing. Unfortunately there was a spate of emergency c-sections that day so I was kept in the holding pattern until just after 9pm on Thursaday night. I was taken down and put on the hormone drip to stimulate contractions at about 9.40pm. I managed on hypnoborthing techniques until around midnight then tried a touch of gas and air which just made me feel sick:rolleyes: so continued until 1.30am when I opted for a diamorphine injection. L luuuuuurve that stuff I was basically napping between contractions!!!

Eventually gasve birth with the aid of forceps at 0703 on Friday 27th Feb, so the wee man kept us waiting 16 days!!!

We were transferred back up to the ward after some tea and toast, a hot bath (Hubbles kept having to make sure I wasn't asleep in it as I had been awake 26 hours by then...) where I had a nap, Nathan had a bath and Hubbles went home for some much needed sleep. Nathan received his first visitor (my Mum) at 12.30, just 5 hours after joining us!!! The fan club has grown steadily ever since...

Lucifa73

Oh and -

happy birthday Maz :beer:
well done Snaggles :T

hello everybody else - I have MISSED you ALL!!!:D

ljs2000

Well done luc, how big was he?

Snaggles

Well done Luc, glad it was a happy, if rather lengthy experience!

Can't wait to see the photos.

Ellidee

Gosh Luc your wee man really liked it where he was didn't he ! Can't wait to see the pics. XX

Lucifa73

ljs2000 wrote: »

Well done luc, how big was he?

Ooops - i keep missing that small but important detail...

He was 7lb 15oz

I also forgot to mention that he was born with the cord around his neck which is partially why the assistance was needed at the end as it was affecting the oxygen levels in his blood - essentailly every tine I contracted he was getting strangled:eek:

Burlesque_Babe

awwwww.........congratulations Luc xx

spud30

Congratulations Luc xxx