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Weekly Flylady Thread 2nd March 2009

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  • Morning ladies!

    I have been up since about 0300 'cos Tristan is back in hospital and I received an email asking me to be here, so I am. Apparently they operated on him two days ago and is all IV-ed up to pain relief now.

    So I have been talking to him (well, typing to him!) for nearly two hours now. He is fairly lucid but I have been warned by our mutual friend that he tends to hit the morphine button a lot and so he might drift off on me while we talk, and his typing is getting a little dodgy now.

    So far he has been almost like his old self though, flirting like mad and laughing at me on cam when I roll my eyes at him! In the serious moments he tells me he is feeling like sh*t and that he loves me. I can't hear either of those statements without crying but it upsets him to see me cry on cam so I try and stop! I will stay with him til he falls asleep or til his family comes back in about three hours so will be up for a while yet.

    I hope you all have really productive days flying and thank you for your continued thoughts and prayers. I know he doesn't have long and it makes every minute I have with him more precious.

    Diva.x
    To be frugal, you need to spend money wisely, simply spending less is not enough.
    If you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best...
    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I will try again tomorrow.
  • Penelope_Penguin
    Penelope_Penguin Posts: 17,225 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    Mondays are Marvellous!! - kitchen and dining area
    Level One -all done :j
    Level Two
    [strike]Wipe the table[/strike]
    degunge the fridge
    Wipe the units and large appliances
    Level Three
    [strike]wipe any dining chairs that are grotty
    Wash the windows and sills
    [/strike]
    Clean all those small appliances and give 1 a thorough clean.
    Extras
    1. Deweb and polish
    2. S&S the hob & oven
    Tuesday twinkles! - Living room, hall and stairs!
    Level One

    [STRIKE]Declutter and vacuum![/STRIKE]
    Spend half an hour doing something for yourself! .. make yourself a hair appointment or something!
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Wipe sofas
    Wash windows[/STRIKE]

    dust and deweb!.. don't forget furry skirtings!
    Level three
    [STRIKE]Wash any soft furnishings that need doing
    Vacuum right the way up the stairs![/STRIKE]

    Sort through coats n bags n shoes etc
    Extras
    1. Sort through a handbag
    2. Sort through a cupboard or drawer of junk
    3. [STRIKE]Sift through a pile of paperwork and file or shred as appropriate [/STRIKE]
    4. [STRIKE] HHI[/STRIKE]
    I got ahead on the living room yesterday :j Just sat here sorting through my bank statements, then off to work later.

    Penny. x
    :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
  • soappie
    soappie Posts: 6,794 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    philb120 wrote: »
    Where can we waffle then ?

    Philb, you can waffle carefully as long as something in the post talks about flying you've done. e.g. a paragraph about the beauty of dahlias followed by a final sentence telling us how you've washed up the tea things is quite acceptable as long as there's not too many of them ;) Weekends, it's a different matter.

    Diva - thoughts and prayers with you and yours

    Wet weather out there this morning and they're talking on the radio about strong winds too.

    I shall do the living room when I get home - though part of it's done already as I washed the cushion covers on Sunday :D

    Have a lovely day people
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • SAVVYMUMMY_2
    SAVVYMUMMY_2 Posts: 362 Forumite
    Mondays are Marvellous!! - kitchen and dining area
    Level One
    strike]Sweep and mop the floor[/strike
    [strike]
    Declutter and wipe the worksurfaces
    [/strike]Level Two
    [strike]Wipe the table[/strike]
    [strike]degunge the fridge[/strike]
    Wipe the units and large appliances
    Level Three
    [strike]wipe any dining chairs that are grotty[/strike]
    Wash the windows and sills
    [strike]Clean all those small appliances and give 1 a thorough clean.[/strike]
    Extras
    1. Deweb and polish
    2. Clear out a cupboard of junk!
    3. Wash any curtains/table cloths that need it
    4. [strike]S&S the hob & oven[/strike]
    Also
    5.walked puppie
    6.weekly shop.
    7. 1 load of washing
    Quite pleased with my first official days flying. I will check out list for tomorrow and see how I get on. Must do ironing tomorrow, it`s looking like mount everest at the mo. Catch you all later.


    Tuesday twinkles! - Living room, hall and stairs!
    Level One
    [strike]
    Declutter and vacuum!
    [/strike][STRIKE]Spend half an hour doing something for yourself! .. make yourself a hair appointment or something![/STRIKE]Level Two
    [strike]
    Wipe sofas
    Wash windows
    dust and deweb!.. don't forget furry skirtings!
    [/strike]Level three
    Wash any soft furnishings that need doing
    [strike]
    Vacuum right the way up the stairs!
    Sort through coats n bags n shoes etc
    [/strike]Extras
    1. [strike]
    2. Sort through a handbag
    3. Sort through a cupboard or drawer of junk
    4. Sift through a pile of paperwork and file or shred as appropriate
    5. [/strike][STRIKE]HHI[/STRIKE][strike]
    6. Walk puppie
    7. 2 load of washing
    8. [/strike]
    Grocery Challenge 2013: July week 1 £90/£87.41 :D
    week 2 £90.00/£118.38:eek: week 3 £90/£60.54:jweek4 £90/£79.90 week5 £45/£00
    End of mortgage april 2030
    Mortgage overpayment from june 2013 aiming for £400 a month: £451
    Emergency fund 2013 from june £70
  • sunday_girl
    sunday_girl Posts: 186 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Hi

    Thanks for the pm yesterday, what a friendly group! Off to do my half hour to myself on level 1 soon - out for a jog for the first time :eek:

    I've just requested to join the facebook group but couldn't see anywhere to write a message giving you my mse user name so just to let you know i'm not a weirdo (really) - my first name is Lynn on facebook.

    Will update later with rest of list x
  • mOZzy_2
    mOZzy_2 Posts: 751 Forumite
    morning :hello:

    i've finally caught up with everyone!
    rach wrote: »
    greenbee - i did actually meet DH online. Having always turned my nose up at online dating I realised that because of my job (which used to involve working most evenings and weekends) and the fact that I didn't have anywhere to meet people, I gave it a go. Had quite a few dates and you can actually screen people a bit first and you both know what you're there for. Met quite a few lovely blokes and just one who was a bit odd, but in no way dodgy or dangerous.
    hello fellow 'finding-OH-on-internet-married-and-with-kids-now' :D
    i have to say it was quite fun (for me) to 'sort' through all the 'canditates' and find my mr. right!!!
    greenbee wrote: »
    rach - I'm WAY too much of a wimp to do online dating... I'd die of stress just thinking about meeting up with someone I'd never met all on my own :o
    but that's the good thing about it - you don't have to meet anyone if you don't want to. you first chat with them, get to know each other and MAYBE you meet them ... it's fun :D



    Mondays are Marvellous!! - kitchen and dining area
    Level One

    Level Two
    Wipe the table
    degunge the fridge
    Level Three
    wipe any dining chairs that are grotty
    Wash the windows and sills
    Extras
    1. Deweb and polish
    2. Clear out a cupboard of junk!
    3. S&S the hob & oven
    Tuesday twinkles! - Living room, hall and stairs!
    Level One

    [STRIKE]Declutter[/STRIKE] and vacuum!
    Spend half an hour doing something for yourself! ..
    Level Two
    Wipe sofas
    Wash windows
    dust and deweb!.. don't forget furry skirtings!
    Level three
    Vacuum right the way up the stairs!
    [STRIKE]Sort through coats n bags n shoes etc[/STRIKE]
    Extras
    1. Sort through a handbag
    2. Sort through a cupboard or drawer of junk
    3. Sift through a pile of paperwork and file or shred as appropriate


    Dailies
    wm
    td
    dw
    fold washing
    put washing away
    dinner
    s/s toilets
    sweep floors
    tidy playroom
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 18,094 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Well I've been up since just after 6am preparing for the bed delivery... it should be here by 9am :j . The spare bed was very comfortable, and although it felt a bit strange going to sleep in there, I slept very well! Apparently its a good idea to sleep in your spare bed (if you have one) occasionally so that you know whether your guests are likely to be comfortable. I'm now happy that they will be (if a bit crowded if they're staying more than one night/have much stuff, as it's tiny!).

    Freecycle add sent to two boards stating collection between 2 & 4 pm today... one posted 11.33 pm last night, the other hasn't gone up yet :rolleyes: and I have three responses so far, one of which hasn't actually worked out that I've specified the time & date... but hopefully I'll have decluttered it by the end of today! It took a bit of effort to get the mattress down the stairs, so it'll be fun getting the new one up them, but at least I don't have to do that myself!

    While I'm waiting I'll get on with a few bits from my list :D
  • Natty68
    Natty68 Posts: 3,484 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Morning everyone, sorry I went AWOL last week, but I spent most of it either asleep or watching t.v. I didn’t get that much done, still I started yesterday as I mean to go on now. I even managed to do 30 mins on the Wii Fit, although I was shattered afterwards..lol.

    Funnily enough I am actually finding things easier now the house is sort of in shape, as in it didn’t take long to do anything in the kitchen yesterday. I did most of it while I was doing other things in there – ie. Waiting for the kettle to boil, cooking dinner etc…

    Oooh if anyone is interested I have had my hair all done and new photo’s have been posted on my Facebook page. They were taken while I was out on Saturday night at a “reunion type pub bash”.

    [FONT=&quot]Mondays are Marvellous!! - kitchen and dining area[/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    Level One
    Level Two
    Level Three
    :):):)

    .
    Extras[/FONT]
    1. [FONT=&quot]Deweb [/FONT]
    2. [FONT=&quot]S&S the hob [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Tuesday twinkles! - Living room, hall and stairs![/FONT][FONT=&quot]
    Level One
    Declutter and vacuum!
    Spend half an hour doing something for yourself! .. make yourself a hair appointment or something!
    Level Two
    Wipe sofas
    Wash windows
    dust and deweb!.. don't forget furry skirtings!
    Level three
    Wash any soft furnishings that need doing
    Vacuum right the way up the stairs!
    Sort through coats n bags n shoes etc
    Extras[/FONT]
    1. [FONT=&quot]Sort through a handbag[/FONT]
    2. [FONT=&quot]Sort through a cupboard or drawer of junk[/FONT]
    3. [FONT=&quot]Sift through a pile of paperwork and file or shred as appropriate[/FONT]
    4. [FONT=&quot]HHI[/FONT]
    Natty’s Extras:

    Breakfast
    Wash up breakfast things
    Get sausages out to defrost sausages for dinner

    Sort out veg box
    Make carrot soup – put carrots in slow cooker
    Shower/dressed
    Cut daffodils from garden for front room
    Wash loads x 2
    Make bed
    Handwash stockings

    I’ve also washed the bath, changed bath mat, washed the sink and degunked the toilet (ugh!) Washed the windows and windowsills and opened the window to air the room.
    Mortgage Free as of 20.9.17
    Declutter challenge 2023, 2024 🏅 🏅⭐️⭐️
    Declutter Challenge 2025
    DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
  • mumofjusttwo
    mumofjusttwo Posts: 2,610 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Diva the biggest hug to you and Tristan. It is always hard to be strong for other people.

    DS has school today and DH will be rounf later to see DD and DS, then he will be back later on this evening so I can go out :j

    Updated my list as last nights list (so much for me being organised) wasn't stiked so ooked like Ineed to do even more.


    Where has the sun gone? Who has got it. I want it
    back. NOW *mumofjusttwo goes of stomping her feet*


    Mondays are Marvellous!! - kitchen and dining area
    Extras
    Deweb and polish
    Clear out a cupboard of junk!
    Wash any curtains/table cloths that need it
    S&S the hob & oven




    Tuesday twinkles! - Living room, hall and stairs!
    Level One
    Level Two
    Wipe sofas
    Wash windows
    Clean skirtings! Thursday
    Level three
    Vacuum right the way up the stairs! Thursday
    Sort through coats n bags n shoes etc
    Extras
    [STRIKE]Sort through a handbag[/STRIKE]
    Sort through a cupboard or drawer of junk
    Sift through a pile of paperwork and file or shred as appropriate




    To Do
    1. Fix sideboard 2. fix wardrobe/take it down DH's 3. paint wall 4 fix heater in bathroom-H says he wil look at it. 5.Rearrange living room 6.look at taking freezer to summerhouse 7.move fridge 8. buy some work top 9. buy a hob 10.fix chest of drawers 11. sort out mortgage [STRIKE]12. phone up re council tax 13 phone up re job forms 14 sort out tax credit stuff 15 phone up re pay office no.16 buy so coat hooks[/STRIKE]17 buy some shelves.[STRIKE]18 put in hall lightbulb[/STRIKE]19. Cut shelves to fit into kitchen cupboard
    January Grocery 11/374
  • juliejim
    juliejim Posts: 7,944 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I am now a cat!:eek: DH says I look more like a cat burglar!
    NST #10 Steps 7K 2/30 10K 2/12 5 a day 3/30 NSD 0/20
    MBNA £5500
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