The Compers Inn - Part 14

breezerockz

cistolic wrote: »

Night Breeze Sleep Tite Lucky, realised dreams. xx

thanks:D
and i hope you do also ,
xxx

nite everyone else.

goodluck with sorting a question out sally.

xxx

sally2489

Night Breeze.

Thanks for all your help!!

You ever need anything...just ask!! xxx

breezerockz

sally2489 wrote: »

Night Breeze.

Thanks for all your help!!

You ever need anything...just ask!! xxx

aww thanks. ditto

Nite
xxxxx

cistolic

Sally , if you are doing forced marriage in UK , there is also the immediate family consequence,From what I read in the press, but this may be exaggerated, ma in law condones and even takes part in the violence, if you resist or stray, there are the family, brothers who are willing to kill for family honour, the fear is greater than a standard UK marriage. Many Girls who stray and chose forbidden love have to go into hiding for fear of their life, not from husband abuse but from brothers and fathers. This is a massive subject that you are studying.

gingerchick

Well, I've got through 20 pages of comps, and broken my duck on my winning streak:j
Won the coffee hamper. Woohoo.
Lets hope it's the start of a few coming in.
Gonna go to bed in a while, as trying to sort the whole house out whilst I'm on annual leave this week.
Attacking the living room tomorrow and trying to keep the kids toys upstairs!:rolleyes: Although I know after a few days things will start to make their way down again.:rotfl:

Nite all.

sally2489

cistolic wrote: »

Sally , if you are doing forced marriage in UK , there is also the immediate family consequence,From what I read in the press, but this may be exaggerated, ma in law condones and even takes part in the violence, if you resist or stray, there are the family, brothers who are willing to kill for family honour, the fear is greater than a standard UK marriage. Many Girls who stray and chose forbidden love have to go into hiding for fear of their life, not from husband abuse but from brothers and fathers. This is a massive subject that you are studying.

Yep, wanted to choose a topic that i could write alot about, and forced marriages, and domestic violence are both interesting, controversial and alot of info on the net, and in the media!
Heard of loads of cases of forced marriages over the years...most end up going through with the marriages they're not happy with, but those that point-blank refuse to get married, or try to escape are either disowned by the whole family, or are hurt/murdered, nearly always by male family members!

sally2489

gingerchick wrote: »

Well, I've got through 20 pages of comps, and broken my duck on my winning streak:j
Won the coffee hamper. Woohoo.
Lets hope it's the start of a few coming in.
Gonna go to bed in a while, as trying to sort the whole house out whilst I'm on annual leave this week.
Attacking the living room tomorrow and trying to keep the kids toys upstairs!:rolleyes: Although I know after a few days things will start to make their way down again.:rotfl:

Nite all.

Congrats Gingerchick!!:T

Hope you get your house sorted with the minimal stress possible!

night! xxx

cmcconnell

sally2489 wrote: »

Yep, wanted to choose a topic that i could write alot about, and forced marriages, and domestic violence are both interesting, controversial and alot of info on the net, and in the media!
Heard of loads of cases of forced marriages over the years...most end up going through with the marriages they're not happy with, but those that point-blank refuse to get married, or try to escape are either disowned by the whole family, or are hurt/murdered, nearly always by male family members!

would also be interesting to look into girls who go through with the marriage but then say they dont want there p[artner to come over to the uk ( like when the marriage is half set up so that they can get visa's ??) the foreign and ommonwealth opffice deals with / has a forced marriage department bit i think ?? an isnt there like a civil protection act in the uk about forced marriages now? like one that only came out in the last yea or so ?? i reme,ber it being in the news when OH was at uni ?

sally2489

cmcconnell wrote: »

would also be interesting to look into girls who go through with the marriage but then say they dont want there p[artner to come over to the uk ( like when the marriage is half set up so that they can get visa's ??) the foreign and ommonwealth opffice deals with / has a forced marriage department bit i think ?? an isnt there like a civil protection act in the uk about forced marriages now? like one that only came out in the last yea or so ?? i reme,ber it being in the news when OH was at uni ?

Thanks CMC!!
Yep the forced marriages act came out last year to protect victims of forced marriages, get them the help they need, and move them to a place of safety.

Going to think of what research questions i can do, any ideas just let me know!!!!:o
Will probably be away from the inn on Wednesday to try and do the assignment, then will chill Thursday, and hand it in on Friday!! (hopefully!):o

Anyway I'm off now!!

night, and thanks to everyone!!
xxx

melvis

Morning all, haven't been on for a few days, had a busy weekend then yesterday was spent at work and cleaning the house.

Rude Boy escaped from the garden Sunday morning :eek: we're still not sure how he got out spent an hour looking for him then he appeared outside the house covered in poop :rolleyes: :eek: so had to clean him up then rush to the cinema for 11am for the sky perks screening of Marley & Me. I loved it! OH felt like he'd lost 2 hours of his life :rolleyes: I cried. OH said I was a Big Jessy :rotfl:Then we went out and had the worst sunday lunch ever, we weren't impressed!

Mam's coming round after work tonight then I can finally get some comps done! Going to be so far behind now, I daren't even look :rotfl:

kkk ... hope all goes well at your appointment this morning

have a nice day all xxx