Im new, my SOA, plan etc...

schrojen

Live is cr*p. OH once had an affair few years ago. Ended and whatever, we stayed together. Found out this morning hes been seeing her since June last year with endless promises that he would leave me. Im gobsmacked. We just been on a romantic holiday, planned a few other trips, next holiday in summer, renewed house contract, joined gym...
!!!!!!!
Im numb I dont even know what to say. Found out cos he was out late last night and fell asleep with laptop on him when I got up it had an email from her open. And there was like hundreds more in a special folder.
Send her an email telling her to get lost.ccd him.
NOw I get called bunny boiler by him and best thing is, he denies the whole thing! she just turned rude and told me she does what she wants and that hes running after her.
:mad:
Anyone top that ?

boadicea_2

The cheeky sod. How rude. How disrespectful, after you've supported him through months of joblessness and being cr*ap with money.

Get rid of him. Don't give it another thought, don't waste a single day of your life with someone who doesn't appreciate what he has, and from the sounds of it never will.

There are loads of men out there who would be delighted to treat you like a princess, don't settle for anything less!!

schrojen

if only it were that easy.have told him to go.he said no probs, but I know he wont.ar*ehole.Am going swimming after work. So far not cried.still in shock I think.wine I think after.and thank god I have to work tomoro.
How can someoine just be like that?I dont get it.