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Barbecue Wedding reception?

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Hello all,


Has anyone on here ever had a Barbecue wedding reception?

After the 'rough' budget for venue, dress, shoes, make up, veil, 5 x suit hire and photographer we are at 13k._pale_ Thats not including flowers, bridesmaid dresses, decorations or extras.

Need to take some drastic action and I'm exploring all avenues. I've been to a wedding party but the couple got married in Mexico and had a reception party with a Barbecue when they came back.
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  • tessie_bear
    tessie_bear Posts: 4,898 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    my friend had a bbq reception but it wasnt many and various slapping burgers on a grill she paid a chap with his own catering business to take charge and sort it all out...it was fun and he did her proud....she did it in her parents garden...which saved a few bob
    onwards and upwards
  • my friend had a bbq reception but it wasnt many and various slapping burgers on a grill she paid a chap with his own catering business to take charge and sort it all out...it was fun and he did her proud....she did it in her parents garden...which saved a few bob

    I should have mentioned that-The intention is a professional BBQ caterer. My friends wedding was in a hotel and the Food was done just near hotel conservatory.
  • wolfehouse
    wolfehouse Posts: 1,394 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    one venue we visited said they do a bbq for £10 a head
    they recommended skewers (cheicken and veg) but could do burgers and sausages.

    she also said one bride did veal and salmon but it cost a fortune
  • Minxy_Bella
    Minxy_Bella Posts: 1,948 Forumite
    A BBQ sounds like a fantastic idea, but I'd be worried about the weather. Could you get a small marquis/gazebo type thingy with some patio heaters just in case?

    Or have you thought about a hog roast? They always go down well!
  • Neeny82
    Neeny82 Posts: 342 Forumite
    We are having a BBQ in the evening instead of a buffet. TBH it is not cheap but we really like the idea!
    :D Finally decided to start growing up when it comes to money!:j
  • We are having a hog roast, and I still think it will cost £1500 to feed 100 people.
  • tessie_bear
    tessie_bear Posts: 4,898 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    we went to a hog roast recently and it was fab...lovely summer evening...agree with person who suggested a canopy though...rain could spoil it somewhat
    onwards and upwards
  • agree with the hog roast.

    we had one at our reception and it was amazing!! the meat was enough for about 100-125 people, so we had some left over!
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  • Ok well it sounds like it might go down well and save us a few quid. The Venue we were looking at was about £40 per head so with 100 people thats £4k straight off-plus venue hire(£1500) and drinks.
  • MsChazzer
    MsChazzer Posts: 701 Forumite
    We're having a barbecue and getting a professional catering company to do it. They originally quoted £15pp but we asked for organic meat so it's gone up. We're having Aberdeen Angus burgers, chicken, beanburgers, a selection of salads and strawberries and cream for dessert. We're trying to keep the whole day pretty relaxed so having a barbecue fits in. The company also charge us for operational stuff, including hot food storage containers in case it rains (around £300). Our venue doesn't have a professional kitchen so it's the only way we could have hot food.
    Got married 23rd May 2009, many thanks to all on the Weddings and Anniversaries board for their help and support!
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