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My 'Diamond' Engagement Ring is Cubic Zirconia !!!

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I'm in shock.....the diamond engagement ring I've been wearing since 1988 lost a stone and I took it to a local jewellers for repair only to be told that all the stones in the ring are not actually diamonds but cubic zirconia !!!

I can't believe it... luckily for my husband, we were together when we chose and bought the ring otherwise he would have looked a right cheap skate!!

We bought it in 1988 from Ratners ( i know, i know!) for just under £200 and understood it to be a diamond daisy cluster ring in 9ct gold. There's no way we would have paid that money for a cubic zirconia ring over £20 years ago.

Don't suppose there is a thing I can do about it now though is there?? Ratners no longer existant and all that.

Don't get me wrong, i still love the ring, after all it's what it represents that's important, not how much it cost, it wouldn't have mattered if it had come out of a cracker, as long as i knew....Absolutely gutted at the thought that Ratners has taken us both for a ride and let us believe that for the last 21 years i've been wearing a 'diamond' ring and let us pay a fortune (back then) for cubic zirconia

Any thoughts anyone, or anyone had a similar experience ??
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  • tessie_bear
    tessie_bear Posts: 4,898 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    blimey...thats bad if u bought it as a diamond imagine the stick oh would of got if he had gone on his own...or mine would have
    onwards and upwards
  • ChrisCobra
    ChrisCobra Posts: 1,647 Forumite
    Fugazi! :d
  • Kavanne
    Kavanne Posts: 5,093 Forumite
    Seen some daisy diamond rings on eBay lately if you are interested in getting a real diamond? :D Or you can ask the jeweller to make your ring in diamonds instead.
    Kavanne
    Nuns! Nuns! Reverse!

    'I do my job, do you do yours?'

  • Felicity
    Felicity Posts: 1,064 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    What bad luck! I so feel for you.

    As you say though it is the thought that counts. I know, not much help now.

    For anybody else reading this, only buy diamonds from a reputable supplier!
  • Kavanne
    Kavanne Posts: 5,093 Forumite
    Felicity wrote: »
    What bad luck! I so feel for you.

    As you say though it is the thought that counts. I know, not much help now.

    For anybody else reading this, only buy diamonds from a reputable supplier!
    Surely the OP thought ratners WAS reputable back in the day!!



    Anyway, I've bought diamonds off eBay before and make sure they either: come with a valuation or take them to a reputable jeweller once received for an appraisal :D
    Kavanne
    Nuns! Nuns! Reverse!

    'I do my job, do you do yours?'

  • Rachel83
    Rachel83 Posts: 335 Forumite
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    It probably happens more often than you think :(

    OH got me a pair of really expensive diamond earings only for me to open them and close up they are terrible quality :( Don't get me wrong i'd never return them ever sentimental i guess ;) hehe.

    Tbh i don't think you have a claim against them especially if they no longer exist. So i guess you go on loving your cubic zirconia ring no one else will know otherwise unless you say so ;) Or you could maybe try take the ring somewhere reputable and replace the cubic zirconia with diamonds?

    Maybe you could do it on a big wedding anniversary or something :D
  • NBirdy
    NBirdy Posts: 1,398 Forumite
    I presume the local jewellers IS reputable lol!?
  • DSmiffy
    DSmiffy Posts: 791 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Combo Breaker
    NBirdy wrote: »
    I presume the local jewellers IS reputable lol!?


    Ha ha, yes... i did wonder whether someone would go to all the trouble of changing all the stones whilst in the jewellers... but i don't think so.
  • suki1964
    suki1964 Posts: 14,313 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Isnt H Samuel Ratners repackaged? Im sure they were all the same company
  • Mely
    Mely Posts: 4,121 Forumite
    suki1964 wrote: »
    Isnt H Samuel Ratners repackaged? Im sure they were all the same company

    Suki i was just about to type that! :D
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