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Loan From Your Kids?

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  • tattycath
    tattycath Posts: 7,175 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    OP if you want to help pay your mortgage off quicker I suggest you follow advice from MSE, join some of the challenges, Sell (some of your own) stuff on ebay to raise extra money to make overpayments.
    Much better than using your daughters' money.
    GE 36 *MFD may 2043
    MFIT-T5 #60 £136,850.30
    Mortgage overpayments 2019 - £285.96
    2020 Jan-£40-feb-£18.28.march-£25
    Christmas savings card 2020 £20/£100
    Emergency savings £100/£500
    12/3/17 175lb - 06/11/2019 152lb
  • Best advice is to forget it even exists. It will end in tears. My daughter has money in trust and for a time had a lot more ready cash than I did. We never touched it because it was not our money. If it was meant for you it would have been given to you.
    TRYING VERY HARD TO START SAVING!
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  • This thread is hilarious - surely it was a windup from the OP?
  • POSSETTE
    POSSETTE Posts: 1,474 Forumite
    This is why i disagree sometimes with leaving grandchildren money instead of the adult children..if you get me!
    what happens if grandchild has 70k in trust in bank and the childs parents are about to lose thier house?? its wrong to use it i know but if your being made homeless????
    TO FINISH LAST, FIRST YOU HAVE TO FINISH....
  • tattycath
    tattycath Posts: 7,175 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    POSSETTE wrote: »
    This is why i disagree sometimes with leaving grandchildren money instead of the adult children..if you get me!
    what happens if grandchild has 70k in trust in bank and the childs parents are about to lose thier house?? its wrong to use it i know but if your being made homeless????

    But in this case we are unaware as to what financial straits the OP is in. anyone with a mortgage would find things easier if the mortgage was reduced-that doesn't mean they are on the verge of being made homeless.
    One of my childrens' grandparents has intimated that they will leave all their worldly goods to my children-because they are concerned that if it is left to their father, he wil !!!!!! it up the wall!!
    GE 36 *MFD may 2043
    MFIT-T5 #60 £136,850.30
    Mortgage overpayments 2019 - £285.96
    2020 Jan-£40-feb-£18.28.march-£25
    Christmas savings card 2020 £20/£100
    Emergency savings £100/£500
    12/3/17 175lb - 06/11/2019 152lb
  • there is some logic if you are paying, say 5.5% on a fixed rate mortgage and the best you can get on a savings account is 3.0% - so you pay off some of the mortgage, and give your daughter the difference, but for 2.5% on 10k is it worth it? 250 quid a year saving?? be different if it was 100k.
  • POSSETTE wrote: »
    This is why i disagree sometimes with leaving grandchildren money instead of the adult children..if you get me!
    what happens if grandchild has 70k in trust in bank and the childs parents are about to lose thier house?? its wrong to use it i know but if your being made homeless????

    what if the grandparents realise their own children are financial idiots and know they will waste the money. they may well be doing it on purpose so the grandchildren actually end up with something!!!
  • POSSETTE
    POSSETTE Posts: 1,474 Forumite
    yes i agree with the replies...just a thought i had though..i know we dont know the financial straits they are in,and i am curious as to how the 6 year old would pay her expenses if she hadnt inherited??
    TO FINISH LAST, FIRST YOU HAVE TO FINISH....
  • tattycath
    tattycath Posts: 7,175 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    POSSETTE wrote: »
    yes i agree with the replies...just a thought i had though..i know we dont know the financial straits they are in,and i am curious as to how the 6 year old would pay her expenses if she hadnt inherited??[/QUOTE]

    Yes, I thought that, Her parents would have to support her-like they should be doing now!!!!
    GE 36 *MFD may 2043
    MFIT-T5 #60 £136,850.30
    Mortgage overpayments 2019 - £285.96
    2020 Jan-£40-feb-£18.28.march-£25
    Christmas savings card 2020 £20/£100
    Emergency savings £100/£500
    12/3/17 175lb - 06/11/2019 152lb
  • Apples2 wrote: »
    Without question, the very WORSE parents I have ever read about.

    Really?

    Worse than the parents that beat their children black and blue?

    Worse than the parents who abuse their children?

    Worse than parents who prostitute their children?

    Worse than parents who murder their children?

    Get a grip. I don't agree with the OP at all and what they want to do but to call them the worse parents that you have every read about is either extremely pathetic or you have lived a very sheltered life.
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