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Some advice pls

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  • Pobby
    Pobby Posts: 5,438 Forumite
    Sorry to hear this gibbers. No advice I am afraid mate. I wish you well with it tho.
  • drbeat
    drbeat Posts: 627 Forumite
    gibbers wrote: »
    God knows mate, shes told me everyone has said to her what is she thinking but that just makes her more adamant. I have tried to save the situation but its not going to happen.

    Gibbers, just out of interest, was she the one gunning the most for a house?
  • gibbers
    gibbers Posts: 18 Forumite
    drbeat wrote: »
    Gibbers, just out of interest, was she the one gunning the most for a house?

    Yes mate, and wanted to get engaged in march last year. Then we move out and she doesnt want any of it... Very strange
  • drbeat
    drbeat Posts: 627 Forumite
    gibbers wrote: »
    Yes mate, and wanted to get engaged in march last year. Then we move out and she doesnt want any of it... Very strange

    Makes perfect sense to me! My ex was desperate for me to get into huge debt for a house blah blah...when I refused I was given the boot! all my !!!!!! packed up and thrown out onto the road! We got back together soon after but a few months later it went t1ts up! I'm not saying ALL women are like this but this rubbish seems to be fueled by the female side of a relationship.

    I really hope you get it sorted...and I feel for you too. I take back my earlier comment that you're both to blame as you've been put - from what I can tell - in a awkward situation.
  • LandyAndy
    LandyAndy Posts: 26,377 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts
    I'm guessing you are quite young and so your ex doesn't appreciate that property and mortgages are even harder to walk away from than relationships.:rolleyes:

    As other posters have said it's important that you find a way of talking to her about the way out.

    Can't really add to the advice though. Just wish you luck.
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