This is to anyone who is struggling with debt

neverindebtagain

My biggest mistake was not talking to my husband, It was not because I feared him it was because I did not want to put more pressure on him, suppose in hindsight I treat him like a child and I wanted to protect him like I do the children. I have got to learn that there are two adults in this relationship and we have to share the running of the house evenly.

I am a brooder and have spent so long having to be as organised as possible robbing peter to pay paul that when problems arise I cannot rest until it is sorted.

I would have gone insane if I had not found this forum. I have asked experts questions but nothing beats hearing from everyone on here their experiences. Even CCCS br helpline said they read these posts because who better to say what br is like than us poor devils.

As I say still got a difficult year ahead if husband has to go br, but it is his bankruptcy I can only offer advice. Its like one big spring clean, out with the old life and in with the new.

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neverindebtagain wrote: »

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I would have gone insane if I had not found this forum. I have asked experts questions but nothing beats hearing from everyone on here their experiences. Even CCCS br helpline said they read these posts because who better to say what br is like than us poor devils....................

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Hear Hear NIDA - Well said :T

SA