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Daily Chat**29/12**Any Turkey left???

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  • System
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    Setting off soon Bunny. You have a good day too Penguin
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  • Sar, why not just enjoy the moments instead of trying to see into the future hun?
    I do, but it keeps being the case that something'll happen, we'll talk and decide 'it's got to stop as it's not fair on either of us'... til it happens again..
    I haven't got a problem with waiting. But he's already said 'never' so...
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    Que sera, sera. <3
  • System
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    Right Im off have a good day everyone, hope you cheer up Sar. Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee (for now :D)
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  • Bye Len, drive safe.
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  • edinburgher
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    Morning all :)

    Sore throat for my trouble today, but I can't let that distract me. Will be trying out my cooking related toys this afternoon, so got about twenty ingredients to go out and find!
  • Hope the throat gets better soon edinburgher..
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    Que sera, sera. <3
  • edinburgher
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    Hope the throat gets better soon edinburgher..

    Cheers - I've had some multivitamins and will get some soluble aspirin for gargling when I'm out. Hoping it won't come to much.
  • Sar,
    I am taking umbrage to the 'never' thing-why is now ok but the future never? I don't get it....sorry if I'm being thick....
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Sar,
    I am taking umbrage to the 'never' thing-why is now ok but the future never? I don't get it....sorry if I'm being thick....
    because its all behind closed doors now I guess, apparently he's a very jealous person when he's in a relationship and he also has issue with the fact Ste will always be in my life because of the girls.
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    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Morning :)

    Sar it sounds like such a difficult situation for you :( - you know it's hurting you to keep seeing him in 'that' way, but it's never just as easy as walking away and forgetting about him, especially when you have to see him on a regular basis anyway.

    Recent experience has made me think that sometimes you know what the sensible thing to do would be, but you also know you can't do it, so all you can really do is accept the risk you are taking and try to protect your heart from the pain as much as you can.

    Pania told me that sometimes you have to keep a garden fence around your heart but not a wall, and I think that's really good advice.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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