Friday 19th Chat - Jingle Bells....

skint_spice

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

And I know Im overweight and probably not attractive to every male under the sun, in fact, I am perhaps in a 'specialist' catagory, but Im not a freak show am I?

can you have a look in the mirror or something? you really are gorgeous! The damage this is doing to your self esteem is awful. Please have another talk with him as he sounds v caring and I don't think he realises the damage he's doing.

sallyx

Bunny, you are simply gorgeous and I think the majority of men would find you attractive hun. If he want to add some spice have you tried initiating it? Has it been worse since you have the children?? Would some time just the 2 of you be an idea?

daphne_descends

Bun you are GORGEOUS and everyone who has met you says the same!

Edit your posts if you don't want it on the board, I totally understand, I took out something the other day because it felt too much - I think I'll PM you over the weekend...

Anyway on a simple level you have three options
- throw yourself in at the deep end, get some DVDs or whatever and flaunt it so he has to either get interested or say SOMETHING in response
- seek counselling just for you to talk about it
- issue an ultimatum (eek - don't like to say it even but it IS an option, viable or not)

or okay option 4 is just carry on but you're young, you can't write it off forever, and you shouldn't!

Freak show, my goodness, I bet you are in better shape than me
I bet you I bet you
I might drive up and see you and show you my STOMACH!

Ellidee

Bun I thought that because you got back together all was fine and dandy now.

sallyx

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

i be home now, rather guttered! catching up the thread, will post again when i get to the end, apologies for any melling s!!!!takes...........

here she comes rolling in from her boozy night out. Im waiting to see why you are gutted, guessing because you are home earlyish and not the wild night you had hoped for!! Think I am going to come up to you and we can paint the town red...with red tights

Bunnyinthelights

Sall
The Spa was supposed to be 'just the 2 of us' and it went down like a lead balloon


anyway.

enough talk abot me

daphne_descends

Oh my god

I am on the sofa with my laptop

OH is on a beanbag in front of the TV

the poor lamb has only bloody fallen asleep

He NEVER does this
EVER!

ha ha ha

so much for putting the tree up

I bet his own snoring wakes him up

Bunnyinthelights

ah buggar it all.


sorry for being a drama queen
x

daphne_descends

No apology my darling, you are not a drama queen :kisses3:

xxx

skint_spice

Bunny moan at us all you like. was the holiday good otherwise?