Fire Fox's Debt-Free in 2009 Diary

ZiggyStardust_2

It must be the last thing you feel like doing but really could do you the world of good. Foxy new hair do, some wine, a male friend who thinks you're fabulous, a female friend who can agree with you that most men are b******s.... go, let your hair down and try and have a nice evening. It's times like these that friends can really pick you up and give you the boost you need, so let them

claire0788

Fire Fox, you know I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months ago. I have advice you need to remember.

1. Dont go for a major "i need to look totally different" hair cut.
2. Go out as much as you can with friends and family even when you feel like utter crap.
3. Start to glam yourself up more than you usually so at least you look good when you feel rubbish.
4. Dont think about said guy, forget as much you can about them til your strong enough.
5. Be happy dont forget the chococlate

lilmissmup

Point 2 above i agree with totally!!!

I am planning on getting something different done to my hair soon and a new tattoo eventually!

claire0788

I hate men, i really do. I hate Ex for being an a***...

lilmissmup

I can't hate mine, thats the problem! But we WILL all meet hunks one day!!!

claire0788

Im quite happy being single the now, the fact that my friends would probably batter me if i said i wanted to get back with Ex helps not to contact him. Although checking bebo isnt really contact...

lilmissmup

Block block block! I deleted my ex off facebook so i wouldn;t see anything i didn't want too. Was with him 6,5 years and need to cut all contact, well try too!

claire0788

Fire Fox your a strong woman, youll get through this and be much happier for it.

Fire_Fox

I just spent £28 on a wash, cut and finish - I normally only have a wet cut to save money. I wish I could say I felt better for it, but I don't. I've also lost about two inches from my waist from not eating, maybe I'll be thin again by the end of the month. :rolleyes:

Then it'll be worth have implants done which I seriously looked into two years ago (I'm really small, like AA small). I also need another tattoo - I want the throat chakra on the back of neck, just below the collarline. Lilmissmup: want tattoo are you thinking of and where?

And the TV has arrived so Mr. Fire Fox is content. I am struggling to imagine him leaving since he has no transport and I am certainly not helping him pack. Claire0788: I am completely off the whole man idea too, one 'stormy' marriage, the love of my life killed and now the one who finally tamed me doing that ... three disasters is enough for any girl.

ZiggyStardust: my female friend is the other way inclined, but doesn't seem to be a man-hater! I don't really want to tell them - my male friend doesn't like Mr. Fire Fox any more than Mr. Fire Fox likes him. Plus I don't want him to think I am giving him the green light. Thinking I might hold fire and announce he has gone but the 'new man' (cat) is in residence at the same time.

lilmissmup

Awww hun sounds like you have had a rough time! Big hugs to you!

I am not sure about a new tattoo, i have 4 already, won't get one for a long time though, worried i might get one thats a tad depressing right now!

Please don't pack his stuff. I had to do that for my ex as he was saying he had no-where to put or take but i was trying to clean out our house whilst he got away with walking off scott free :rolleyes: