What Happens If CSA Cannot Get Hold Of Parent Who Has To Pay

RUBYMIA123

the reason the csa went for the deo without informing my ex was because he had proved himself a liar at that he wouldnt cooperate, when my ex contacted me after he got his payslip i contacted the csa because i was as surprised as him that they had done that without informing him or me and i was told "what did he expect?"

Diamond78

RUBYMIA123 wrote: »

A deo is a deductions of earnings order, and as for what diamond78 said about the csa having to notify the nrp when they do this that is not true, when the csa contacted my ex over the phone for the first time he wouldnt cooperate with them so i tracked down where he was working and passed the details on to the csa who then contacted the employer to confirm this they then sent a payment plan to the employer to tell them how much to take from his earnings each week, the first my ex knew about this was when he got his payslip and the reason i know that is that then my ex contacted me giving me loads of grief about it,
As for your exs brother if he lies to the csa about your ex working there then he is breaking the law and the company will be fined, do you know what department the brother works in? because all the csa need to do is send a letter to the department that deals with paying the wages that way your exs brother need not even know that the csa have been in contact unless he works in that department.

The number I gave the CSA, for his work place is not the main number for head office ie HR. It is a number for customers who ring to find out information. But like I stated, they already deduct money for one of his children, so I would of thought It would be less hassle and easier for them to track him down. If he is already on the system, then surely they would know what department to contact...

I just know what he is like and he will try and get out of this. But he has a secure and well paid job and he would be a fool to leave it just so he doesnt have to pay for his child. All these years he has threatend either violence, threats of harm, threats that he will leave his job and go abroad but I know I can no longer listen to his crap.

Oh well, maybe I will get some good news after xmas. I feel I am just getting my life back together after all these years, Im now enrolled on atleast one course I wanted to do and will be starting another course in january which will help me into employment. The last thing I need is him ringing me and giving me grief. But I know I need to be strong and stick to my guns and not let him get away with it any longer. I feel I come across as this angry ex but Im not angry at all. I have tried to reason with my ex for my childs sake but all he has ever done is be violent and abusive. It's my duty to protect my child and that's what I have done. He is the one who refuses any contact with my son as he does not want it in a contact centre and I will not tell him my new address. He will not be part of my sons life unless he can be with me!! But he still makes me look like the bad one.

Diamond78

aMeLia'S~MuMMY wrote: »

I am not sure what they're up to, however you say he already has a case this means that the old case will have to be converted to new rules, sometimes there are issues ( computer ones)when setting up cases where there is an existing client.

Do not give up or ask them to close the case,as you have said yourself he is an existing client and therfore they should have a majority of the details anyway. There is alot of work as you can imagine and if the person who has your case is bombarded with phonecalls it may take a while to get sorted, my suggestion would be give them a call and ask them why they haven't sent him any forms and query why they cannot send them to his work.

The CSA should send a copy of a DEO to the nrp when they issue one to the employer.If the DEO is issued by the system it will automatically send a copy to nrp. Nrp should also be notified before one is issued either via a warning letter ( or collection schedule as this has the warning on about failing to pay) or verbally if they refuse to pay. Nrp's often 'claim' that they have never been notified but letters go out via the sytem so it can been seen they have been issued..perhaps there was an address issue in your scenario?

Thank you very much. Sorry I did not see your reply, it's late at night and Im very tired.
I realise my case will be a bit complex as there will be 2 different children to pay via two accounts, so everything will have to be recalculated.
The waiting is making me feel nervous, it's coming up to xmas and Im starting to worry a bit. I shouldnt really but I know it will make him angry and he is not nice when he is angry. Half of me thinks I have done right and the other half is saying this is the start if him giving me grief all over again.
He has had nearly 7 years not doing nothing for my child even though he has had many chances and oppurtunities.
I suffer with anxiety as it is and lately I have been feeling on edge about all of this. I am not going to ring the csa till after the new year to give them a bit of time as like you said there is lots for them to do.
Thanks once again.x

aMeLia'S~MuMMY

Diamond78 wrote: »

Thank you very much. Sorry I did not see your reply, it's late at night and Im very tired.
I realise my case will be a bit complex as there will be 2 different children to pay via two accounts, so everything will have to be recalculated.
The waiting is making me feel nervous, it's coming up to xmas and Im starting to worry a bit. I shouldnt really but I know it will make him angry and he is not nice when he is angry. Half of me thinks I have done right and the other half is saying this is the start if him giving me grief all over again.
He has had nearly 7 years not doing nothing for my child even though he has had many chances and oppurtunities.
I suffer with anxiety as it is and lately I have been feeling on edge about all of this. I am not going to ring the csa till after the new year to give them a bit of time as like you said there is lots for them to do.
Thanks once again.x

Don't let the fact that there is lots of work for staff put you off until after the christmas break, what i was trying to say really was that due to the amount of work outstanding alot of the work is customer driven, so if you call then your case will be looked at, if you don't it will be dealt with when someone gets the tasks which are sometimes in quite large work queues, however any calls recived will drive that further down the queue iykwim so you are best ringing them to see where they are up to.