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Can I hide my secret?

BRIGHTHOPE · 2006-01-03 02:04:53

I've lived with my partner for a couple of years now, and she has no knowledge of the problems that I have with credit card debt. It's now got to the stage where I'm going to have to make offers to those credit card companies because I'm no longer able to meet the minimum payments. Her finances are spot on and she owns the…

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Sarahsaver Posts: 8,390 Forumite

3 January 2006 at 6:37PM

rchddap1 wrote:

I have to agree that you need to be upfront with her about it. One of the main keys for a relationship is trust and telling the other person everything. How can she trust you when you keep something as important as this from her? You need to talk to her.

Totally agree. If my other half kept something that big from me for so long he would be shown the door...
Good luck;)

Member no.1 of the 'I'm not in a clique' group :rotfl:
I have done reading too!
To avoid all evil, to do good,
to purify the mind- that is the
teaching of the Buddhas.
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