*Daily Chat Thread* Friday 31st October

Snaggles

Morning - hope no-one minds me starting this, I could do with a chat.

Me and Stu had a last ditch attempt to save our marriage last night, but after talking for hours, we realise that we want different things, and separating is the only option.

I've been honest with him about everything, and he has been honest with me too. We are going to do things amicably, and hopefully be good friends once everything settles down.

I just feel heartbroken that we got to this point, I thought we would be together forever, but at least we tried, and we can start to move on.

I've got a doctors appointment later which I'm quite scared about so I could do with some positive vibes if anyone has any to spare.

Sorry to make this such a miserable start to the thread.

xxx

shell_girl

Plenty of positive vibes going spare here Snaggles- sending them all your way. Don't be sorry- it's not a happy situation you're in by the sounds of things but it seems like you're dealing with it as best you can.
I'm more of a lurker than a poster here on DFW but I've always found your posts honest and sensible, and I think it's obvious to everyone how much you care about your family.

The most important thing is not judge yourself on what has happened, but on how well you cope with it. Sending you hugs xx

spud30

I'll be thinking about you Snaggles hun x

cornishinfens

Hi all, Hope we all have as good a last day of Oct as poss, and get set for our various challenges and goals in Nov.

Snaggles...So sorry for the way things have turned out... It could be that you both need time apart to rediscover yourselves, after all, something brought you together... If things are unlikely to be the same again at least try to be mates - its hard, trust me...

sammy115

Sad thought it is snags at least you seem to have reached a somewhat mutual decision rather than you feeling it was all you. No one goes into marriage thinking its not going to be forever (well I did the first time but that is a different story!) but you are doing what is best for you and your children - although it may not seem it at times.

It is much better to have two happy parents apart than two miserable together...:grouphug:

As for my day, well its off to work and then its the weekend........:j

sammy115

oh and positive vibes for the docs.......

LouiseJ

Snaggles, Sending you all my postive vibes Hunny.

I am pleased you have both been honest with each other, its the only way to move forward no matter what the outcome. Hope everything goes well at the Doctors too.:grouphug:

How cold is it!?!?!?! I have been woken up twice in the night with golf ball sized hail stones pounding off my bedroom window.

My Halloween Pumpkin is fab:T little DS has done a grand job, I will try and post a piccie later.

Have a spooky day everyone...................party later maybe???

skint_spice

Hope things go ok today at docs Snaggles and at least you and Stu tried to make it work, things don't always turn out the way we want them to. but it does sound like you have a lot of respect for each other and can split amicably. x

cat4772

Good morning

Snaggles - I guess you're feeling emotionally drained again. I'm so glad you and Stu were able to talk and recognise that you want different things for your future. Good luck when you see the doctor.(((hugs)))

Cat.x

LouiseJ

I am working from home today as I would be the only one in the office, students are on half term and I can do my planning from this comp:j

Best thing is I can work in my PJs with no makeup on and Freddie Boswell Hair and you will all still love me:D :rotfl:

(Land_of)_Maz

morning all....

hugs to snaggles.... i'm glad Stu has came round to your way of thinking, and basically it validates your decision as being the right one. If you ever need to talk you know where i am.. text me and i can be available in 5mins!

shell girl - that was a lovely post, you really shouldn't lurk if that's the quality of what you have to offer!!

Lou - freddy boswell jnr or snr hair?!