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Do we have to update our will?

I have just been reading another thread about a will and it has got me thinking.
Many years ago when our children were little we made a will which stated that after leaving things to each other we wanted everything to be split evenly between our two children.
Our biggest worry was if we died together (car accident for example.) We stated that our inlaws would have custody and a lump sum would go to them to help raise the children and that a smaller lump sum would go to my mum.

Fortunatley we are all still here and both kids are now over 18 . Does this make our will invalid or confusing?
Any advice

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  • richardw
    richardw Posts: 19,470 Forumite
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    They don't need looking after anymore, does the will say something about until aged 18?
    Posts are not advice and must not be relied upon.
  • Don't know, will investigate
  • WestonDave
    WestonDave Posts: 5,154 Forumite
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    Do you still want the lump sums to go to your respective parents (are they still alive?) - this suggests that the will may not now reflect your current wishes (not withstanding the kids being over 18) - if that's the case it may be worth changing it now to reflect the fact that the kids are adults especially as there may be grandchildren to factor in before too long.
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  • lynseydee
    lynseydee Posts: 1,810 Forumite
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    My boss, who is a solicitor, suggests to clients they review their Wills about every ten years.
    Did owe £9,951.96

    Now helping hubby pay off loan. Finally paid off :j

    Owe Virgin [STRIKE]£5,950.00 [/STRIKE]at 0% til June 2009 £3,427.89. Owe HSBC [STRIKE]£5,460.78 [/STRIKE]2.9% til May 2010 £3,703.07. Owe Post Office £1,676.62 at 0% til September 2010
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    Miss-spent wrote: »
    We stated that our inlaws would have custody and a lump sum would go to them to help raise the children and that a smaller lump sum would go to my mum.

    Was the lump sum dependent on them having the children? If not, then they will still get the money.
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